Stage5Clinger Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 Just in case anyone else is reading this and going through something similar; I've figured it out!! She's a narcissist. If you google narcissist bf/gf one of the first signs of someone being a narcissist is that you start to ask yourself "what's wrong with this girl?" just like the title of my other thread.. And it goes on to explain its incurable and increasing in frequency. Another unfortunate side effect is that the other person in the relationship feels completely inadequate and depressed because of this abusive behavior. Just remember that nothing is wrong with you even though it feels like there is. This is how they want you to feel. Run far far away from these people and never get involved thinking you can fix them or staying in denial. I'm very grateful that in my circumstance she turned on the abuse early on and I didn't get completely involved for a long period of time. It hurts but once you notice what it really is you can understand better why in my circumstance I must break all contact with this person. Another huge red flag is that this girl has frequent "migraines" which immediately makes me feel sorry for her.. Well I think what it really is is a means for her to gain sympathy and control people in a very evil way. I doubt the headaches are even real since every treatment shes ever tried doesn't work. It's a subconscious means of getting attention and sympathy. I don't think she even realizes this but it's not my place to tell her. Super interesting! Anyway I'm glad to have found this out and I'm trying to figure out why I'm drawn to these types of personalities. Hope this helps someone else out here too. 1
Reels Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 Yes she has headaches, allergies, and so much more. I am really not sure what she is up to and continues to do what she is not meant to do. That way, your post is indeed helpful.
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