harvej Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 My ex is making fun of me and bashing me on Facebook. I normally wouldn't care, but she is using mutual friends FB postings to do it. Should I block them too? I use FB for my professional business and would rather not deactivate it to stay clear of this whacko. (She is diagnosed NPD/HPD) They bashing is posting items she know is related to me and our mutual friends also. Need advice? Delete FB, block all mutual friends?
Gus Grimly Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 Yes, I'd block anyone in her close friends and family circle that would let you see what she is doing or give you updates on her. It's the only way you're gonna be able to live peacefully.
Aries82 Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 It happened to me, my ex humiliated to me, called me a fool on her FB wall, so everybody seen that, all our mutual friends and family.Why I don't know,I did nothing wrong. So, I delete my account, did she noticed that, she said no, it does not matter, because I felt much better. I could not see what she is doing or what she is telling to our friends about me. So, heads up, you are better then your ex, she or he just trying justify herself/himself to all your friends.
carhill Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 If Facebook is media interaction for your business, and in the name of your business, then scrub it of personal stuff. If it's in your personal 'realm' and you happen to also conduct business social media content there, simply close it, open a pure business-related account and blast that to your business contacts. Eliminate the personal part. People bad-mouth other people. Been going on since time began. If it's not materially damaging you, well, tongues will wag. Erase those people from your life and, in time, the din will fade. 1
Phoenixashes Posted August 10, 2015 Posted August 10, 2015 She's clearly doing this to get to you. Remove yourself from the audience and it's a useless show. Block all mutual. But how is she us in them...signing onto their pages and posting? Confused. If she's blocked, nothing she does can be seen.
Qboro90 Posted August 10, 2015 Posted August 10, 2015 Report her posts and profile to Facebook and mark it as abuse/Bullying. She will risk being suspended by FB so that would be reason for her to stop.
crederer Posted August 10, 2015 Posted August 10, 2015 My ex did something similar. She found out I was with someone new and she posted a bunch of stuff about how I had AID's and herpes and stuff. I was pretty offended until I found out absolutely no one on fb thinks about you as much as you think they do.
bubbaganoosh Posted August 10, 2015 Posted August 10, 2015 The ones that know you will see through her crap and the ones that choose to believe her you don't need but I will tell you this. Sooner or later it will all come out in the wash and the nonbelievers will see the ugly side of her.
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