ExpatInItaly Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 What people want (especially young people) can change tremendously. The girl who she was when you met her is obviously not the same person she is today. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but unfortunately in this case it meant she wanted to explore other guys. Don't waste time comparing yourself to him. You have no idea what type of relationship they have and you'll only drive yourself crazy trying to figure it all out. His weight, ethnicity, etc, etc, etc shouldn't mean a damn thing to you. Block her again on social media. You don't need any trace of her disrupting your progress.
CT98 Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 (edited) Sorry mate but it's pretty obvious the other guy's got something to do with it. What I've found out from experience is that it's always exactly as it looks, and making excuses for them and to try and deny the truth is a pretty natural thing to do, but ultimately pointless. I'm 26 so I've had plenty of recent experience of exes doing the same thing. I can laugh about it now, and eventually you'll be able too as well. BUT YOU HAVE TO STOP LOOKING AT HER SOCIAL MEDIA RIGHT NOW! Otherwise you'll delay your healing. Sucks mate, but that's the thing with some (most?) young girls, they're prone to this sort of behaviour. There'll be more love in your life, who knows, maybe the next one might be your future wife. Chin up buddy. Edited August 21, 2015 by CT98
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