MACO Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Met this girl while abroad in New York, now back in England and I want to stay in contact on Facebook, but I do not want to be the one who makes first contact as it may seem desperate, so what alternative ways is there to get her attention to show I am still interested? Cant get her off my mind, do you think I should just forget her as it was just a vacation fling? we are both in are 20's. We got talking in a bar, had a few drinks together, she kept saying how I was different to other guys she had been previously with, we went back to mine and did the whole one night fling, and then she was due to go back home next day, so it has been almost one month now I have seen her, I have been travelling so only have access to contacting her in the last couple of weeks. Im English she was American, so I kind of have the idea she wanted to just experience a european guy for that night only? The next day a group of us spent the day out, i have to admit she did make more of an attempt to interact than I did that day, I was hungover and not in the mood for anyone, so did not make an attempt with her the following day which is maybe why she left back home without even acknowledging me, I think I have f*cked this one up, so will prob just block her facebook and forget her? although she was perfect
DeepBlue23 Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 Why is it desparate to contact her on Facebook? What have you got to lose? But if you feel like you're desparate, you probably are. So then I'd start there –- what is it you're desparate for? 2
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