Deric A Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 We are both 16 and She broke up with me cause she s moving away to a different school and didn t wanna do long distance and she likes this other guy that her and her friends hang out with and she said she would try long distance with him because he hangs out with them and is older and has his license and things so it s easier for them to hang out and hey started dating a few days after we broke up. I know it s not gonna last because she s not even sure if she wants a boyfriend right now. So now I need to know what to do if she texts me cause I know she will. And I wanna know what would hurt her more. Ignoring her texts she sends me? Or saying things along the lines of "You made your choice and left me for another guy. I think it s best that we don t talk." I need opinions on what would hurt her more. Please help. Thanks
stillafool Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Ignoring her and looking right past her when you see her will hurt. I know this because I pretend someone is dead when they hurt me. It's not good for your healing to want to hurt her back. I certainly can understand the feeling but when you are trying to hurt another person the pain usually stays with you. So if you want to be over her you will have to feel indifferent to her and anything about her. If you decide to ignore her and she corners you then tell her what you said above.
Author Deric A Posted August 8, 2015 Author Posted August 8, 2015 I know. but i was wondering if out of no where she sends me a "Hey" or something i wasn't sure to ignore her or not. basically what im saying is that she stabbed me in the back and now i want her to pay the price.
anduina Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Forget about hurting her. Consider only your need to move on and if that means ignoring her, do so. Ignoring exs usually means that they will toss you bread crumb texts or emails since they want your attention. Ignore these too since responding usually results in no response back from them since they've now gotten some attention. 1
lolablue17 Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 If she texts you something valuable (like she wants to tell you something important) you can cooperate. But if she texts meaningless texts, Ignore.
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