naz Posted May 8, 2005 Posted May 8, 2005 Here is the basic rundown. I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 months now, and i am very happy with what we have and we both love each other. She is a 10, a model looking chick so here is where things get complicated. At first we had some crazy sex, and now she is on some sort of a religious trip where she basically doesnt put out. We are talking like maybe once a month, and the worst part is that she gets things started with the usual foreplay, but always stops right before and doesnt even give me a reason. Its always some excuse, she needs to go, she is on her period, etc etc, it never stops. I can tell you that sexual attraction is NOT the problem, its some issue she is having and i cant make her tell me. This is driving me crazy, because i cant handle no sex for weeks. Now before you start saying "if you love her, you would understand" go out with a hot ass girl and see how it feels to be in your prime and not be getting any AFTER she teases. I can also get sex from many other girls behind her back, purely for the satisfaction... and at this moment i am even thinking about it. I do love her and dont want to lose her, any advice?
judy56 Posted May 8, 2005 Posted May 8, 2005 You don't really love her if you are talking to us about it and not her.To say that she doesen't put out or you could easily get on other girls shows your lack of compassion for her. You should end the relationship so she can be with someone who concentrates on her and ONLY wants her.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 8, 2005 Posted May 8, 2005 This is a case of an irresistible force meets an immovable object. She shouldn't be obligated to have sex if she has made a personal decision to stop having sex, and you shouldn't have to be stuck with someone who won't have sex with you. You two will really need to do some serious communicating about this. She isn't wrong, and neither are you - that means that you two will have to find a compromise. Both of you will have to make some changes for this to work. Seriously, if she refuses to budge and still refuses to have sex with you, and you refuse to be a participant in a sexless relationship, then your best bet would be to part ways instead of cheating on her with someone else.
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