Dio castillo Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 So we have been dating for one and half year, so this is quite a long tern, intimate relationship. She even talks about getting married and have kids. During this time, we fought quite a few times. The problem mostly because of communication or idea differences. she tend to hide her reason of being angry and expect me to feel for her. When she was showing her childish temper instead of communicating with me , I tend to walk away or keep distance every time we fought. Maybe she thinks that every time we fought it is always her problem and I am always stay upper handed. This time we fought over some small unimportant matters she said to me she need to calm down and she doesn't want to see me temporarily. I was quite surprise when she told me that. After two weeks of no contact, I messaged her and told her I have something to tell you and got two free movie tickets, she replied that she cannot watch movie with me, then ask me what is it I want to talk about and does it require meet up? I hasn't reply to her yet. should I set up a meeting with her? or tell her I am busy and will get back to you later? What is the best way to deal this situation? Thank you!
Author Dio castillo Posted August 8, 2015 Author Posted August 8, 2015 I'm confused... I invite her to watch a movie and also wanted to tell her something. She said she cannot watch movie with me, but ask me what is it I want to tell her. Does it require meet up? Basically I want to get her back but she is the one engaged no contact and refuse my invitation, so what is the best way to deal this situation?
katiegrl Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 I invite her to watch a movie and also wanted to tell her something. She said she cannot watch movie with me, but ask me what is it I want to tell her. Does it require meet up? Basically I want to get her back but she is the one engaged no contact and refuse my invitation, ***so what is the best way to deal this situation***? Move on. Clearly, she has. Sorry. 1
Qboro90 Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 She broke up with you and just didn't say it in words you understood. Two weeks without talking, she's done. You reached out in a strange way too. After not talking to her for 2 weeks you thought that not acknowledging that at all and just asking her to go see a movie was something she wanted to hear? Also if every time you argue you walk away or don't get into it then you probably come off as selfish and uncommitted in her eyes. Even if you think the argument or whatever she's upset about is something little or doesn't matter, you can't tell her that or disregard it. It matters to her therefore you need to hear her out and communicate. Call her and say that you would like to see her in person. There are things you need to talk about especially regarding how you guys left off the last time you saw one another. If she says no then you are officially broken up. If she asks you why you want to see her in person then say that "boyfriends usually get to see their girlfriends. If you don't want to see me then I suppose that means you don't want a boyfriend anymore. It's been 2 weeks and I've given you space but I can't wait forever so tell me now where this is going or if this is over".
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