heather03 Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 I broke up with my ex a few months ago and feel like lately i cant stop thinking about it. I feel like i have to choose whether i want to be friends with him or get back together with him and i cant make a decision. We met up yesterday after 6 months and it was nice; i felt attracted to him and wanted to kiss him, but the same feelings weren't there as before, if that makes sense. I know he wants a second chance but im just still not sure and im thinking about it a lot. Thinking about it to the point of maybe obsession; I just wish I had a clear answer of what I want and should do in this situation. How can i make a decision and know whats right? A little insight..we broke up because he decided to study abroad a second time without really telling me/including me because he was scared. He has apologised since then and tells me that he has changed. Also my family would support me but tell me that they dont think its a good idea to get back with him, and they saw he didnt really make me happy. Half of our relationship was him studying abroad/thinking of studying abroad so no, I wasn't really happy in the relationship
quattrob Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 I broke up with my ex a few months ago and feel like lately i cant stop thinking about it. I feel like i have to choose whether i want to be friends with him or get back together with him and i cant make a decision. We met up yesterday after 6 months and it was nice; i felt attracted to him and wanted to kiss him, but the same feelings weren't there as before, if that makes sense. I know he wants a second chance but im just still not sure and im thinking about it a lot. Thinking about it to the point of maybe obsession; I just wish I had a clear answer of what I want and should do in this situation. How can i make a decision and know whats right? A little insight..we broke up because he decided to study abroad a second time without really telling me/including me because he was scared. He has apologised since then and tells me that he has changed. Also my family would support me but tell me that they dont think its a good idea to get back with him, and they saw he didnt really make me happy. Half of our relationship was him studying abroad/thinking of studying abroad so no, I wasn't really happy in the relationship Look at the bolded sentence from what you posted. You don't love him, you just feel attracted to him, perhaps even infatuated. Like you said he doesn't satisfy your needs and half the time you weren't really happy. You broke up for a reason and I doubt he's changed, just because he says he's changed (in 5-6months?) doesn't mean he has. You should keep your family's advice in mind as I agree with them. Good luck. 2
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