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allytiger

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Well I been texting this guy for like 4 months like non-stop.

 

Well he wants to have sex with me even though I'm a virgin an he said that he doesn't have feelings for me but he still wants to bang me then after he's done he's leaving. He's just gonna use me which I do not appreciate at all because I'm not a sex object.

 

I do not have feelings for him anymore at all but I still like him a little but not as much as I use too.

 

I do not want to have sex with him because I don't have feelings for him at all. He has my money and he says after we banged he'll give me my money back but I do not want to have sex with him but if I tell him that he won't give me my money back he'll end up keeping it but it's my birthday money not his.

 

What should I do when he gets here with my money?

I don't want him keeping my money

 

I'm 23 and he's 28.

elaine567 Established Member

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Sorry why does he have your money and how much money of yours does he have?

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allytiger Member

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For him to see me but he says he only wants to have sex nothing else. He has $48 dollars of mine.

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He has $48 dollars of mine and to see me but he only wants to have sex with me which I do not want.

Satu Established Member

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Have nothing to do with this guy.

 

He's a weird creep.

 

You might have to let that money go.

 

Don't have sex him.

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Got it Established Member

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OMG no. Do not do this. Him paying you back is separate from having sex. Why would you even consider doing this?

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elaine567 Established Member

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well he wants to have sex with me even though I'm a virgin an he said that he doesn't have feelings for me but he still wants to bang me then after he's done he's leaving.
Your going to have sex with this guy and lose your virginity all for the sake of $48????

 

RUN fast, losing $48 is a cheap price to pay.

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Toodaloo Established Member

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Have nothing to do with this guy.

 

He's a weird creep.

 

You might have to let that money go.

 

Don't have sex him.

 

Read this.

 

You have already stated that you do not want to have sex with him so don't.

 

It really is that simple.

 

Don't lend money to idiots again. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

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Toodaloo Established Member

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Your going to have sex with this guy and lose your virginity all for the sake of $48????

 

RUN fast, losing $48 is a cheap price to pay.

 

I know - my first thought is that hookers actually charge they don't have sex to get their own money back...

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BluEyeL Established Member

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Um..no. Are you crazy? Forget the $48.

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CarrieT Established Member

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Your virginity is worth more than $48.

 

Your integrity is worth more than $48.

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understand50 Established Member

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Your virginity is worth more than $48.

 

Your integrity is worth more than $48.

 

Your past will be your past......

 

But, someday, you may have to tell someone you really love deeply, how you lost your virginity. Try and make that story a "good" one.

 

Losing it to someone you did not love, who just wanted to "bang" you, and OBTW owed you $48, is not a story I would like to hear from my wife.

 

Even if you never tell anyone, past Love Shack, imagine telling this to someone you love,would you be ashamed or proud?

 

Believe in your own self worth. I wish you luck.

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mrldii Established Member

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OP, how does this guy have your $48, if you've never met and have only been texting each other for 4 months? :confused:

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CarrieT Established Member

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if you've never met and have only been texting each other for 4 months?

I don't think she has never met him.

 

She said, "I don't have feelings for him anymore" which would indicate they were together - albeit briefly - at some point.

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Arieswoman Established Member

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allytiger,

Are you saying that this guy won't give you your money back unless you have sex with him? :eek:

 

If this is the case I think you need to speak to the Police ASAP.

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elaine567 Established Member

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I don't think she has never met him.

 

She said, "I don't have feelings for him anymore" which would indicate they were together - albeit briefly - at some point.

 

 

Some more info.

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Allytiger please don't do this. Never contact him again, nor respond when he contacts you, and consider it a birthday gift to yourself (as in it was your birthday money and he now has it). And never give money to anyone again.

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BetheButterfly Established Member

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Your virginity is worth more than $48.

 

Your integrity is worth more than $48.

 

100% agreed

 

Op, you could get a sexually transmitted disease if you have sex with this guy.

 

Your health is also worth more than $48.

 

Also, he could seriously hurt you.

 

Your life is worth more than $48.

 

Your feelings are also worth more than $48.

 

You are priceless... you are worth more than any amount of $.

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deadelvis Established Member

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I'll give you $49 not to have sex with him.

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PaperCrane Established Member

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To break it down...

 

If you're a virgin, and young let me break this down for you.

 

Is losing your; self respect, virginity, sense of pride, and mental wellbeing worth - 0.0019 cents a day for the rest of your life?

 

It would take 5 days to make a full penny. A nice muddled copper penny. It would then take 500 days to get a dollar. Over a year to get one dollar back out of this exchange over the course of your life, over and over.

 

In five years would you say "wow I'm so happy I sold my virginity for $48 that was my own in the first place!"

 

Ponder that.

 

I'll give you $49 not to have sex with him.

 

LS kickstarter: "Save the hymen!" :lmao::p

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deadelvis Established Member

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You could easily get a few hundred bucks for your virginity if that's the path you want to take. Just saying...

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I'll give you $49 not to have sex with him.

 

And I'm sure you could find a nicer guy who'd give you $50 for sex.

 

Seriously if I told a woman is return her money in exchange for sex I'd expect a stinging slap across my face, and I'd respect her more for that. If it were someone like my wife he'd end with his face rearranged.

 

Don't do it.

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oldshirt Established Member

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Take the time and energy and money you've been spending on this guy and use it for therapy to find out why you are so desperate and pathetic and think so little of yourself.

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PaperCrane Established Member

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You could easily get a few hundred bucks for your virginity if that's the path you want to take. Just saying...

 

Attractive girls can sell them online for hundreds of thousands.

 

Very wealthy people pay for crazy stuff.

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stillafool Established Member

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He has $48 dollars of mine and to see me but he only wants to have sex with me which I do not want.

 

Do you think your body is only worth $48? What do you want to do? Why are you asking a bunch of strangers this question? Call your mom and ask her if you should do this.

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