Bigmess2 Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 Hello! So here's my story in a nutshell... Had a bad break up a year ago. I've been single for the whole year but have gone on dates here and there. I'm extremely picky though and didn't feel any chemistry with anyone except for this one guy. We work together (both teachers) He's 25 and i'm 27. I don't usually date younger but we really seem to connect. It's easy to talk to him, we laugh constantly, hours of hanging out feels like minutes, and I find him extremely attractive. He comes over to my house at least once a week (I live 45 min- an hour away). We've been talking since April and we talk every single day. We are not in a relationship but we are definitely not just friends. When we go out he pays, we have sex regularly, i've met his friends twice. Some days the conversations are short and some days we talk the whole day. He is a coach and helps runs a travel team. I saw him the day before he left for a 4 day trip and we had a great time. We had plans to hang out the day after he got back but he had to cancel because he also coaches another team and they had practice in the middle of the day so it'd be silly for him to drive out here for an hour and then have to go back out. He said we'd definitely have to reschedule though. So that was Wednesday.. and yesterday we didn't talk at all. I didn't text him because I felt that maybe I was being annoying with my texting (he initiates texts all the time too but the past few days i've been the one to text first) I'm feeling bummed about not hearing from him.... I just can't remember the last time we haven't talked a whole day. I get in my own head and always think the worst. I don't want to come across needy or clingy so i'm just going to let it be but i'm hoping today he reaches out to me... what are your thoughts on the not texting?
PegNosePete Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 My thoughts are that if you text him, he will probably reply. And if you want this kind of relationship then you need to talk to him about moving onto the next level!
Omei Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 It sounds like hes just busy with his travel team and because of your need to have this talk your getting concerned and worried. My suggestion is let him do his thing keep contact of course let his focus in his travel team finish and when he returns have a face to face sit down and tell him how you feel.
Satu Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 You *are*in a relationship with him; the only question is what you want call it, and what it's parameters are. 1
Author Bigmess2 Posted August 7, 2015 Author Posted August 7, 2015 We definitely do all of the things the average couple does in a relationship but without the title. I don't think he's looking for a serious relationship whereas I'd have no problem putting a title to what we have. I'm really into him and he's expressed his interest in me and how he cares about me. I'm just really scared about chasing him away because I enjoy the talking and time we spend together.
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