BlackonBlack Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 There is this woman that worked with me at my school last year. We have always been good friends. Cracked jokes and things like that. Im highly attracted to her but never said anything since we were coworkers. Towards the end of the school year I told her hat I would be switching to a new school next year. From that point she started texting me more. One day I received a text from her and it was her breaking up with her now ex boyfriend. 2 seconds later I get another text from her saying sorry, that wasn't meant to be sent to me. We continued to talk everyday about everything from not being able to find a mate, to deep family secrets. Thoughout our convos she says she doesnt understand why I don't have a mate since I'm attractive and a great guy. I say the same about her and she says she not looking for love because all guys are jerks.... Blah blah. We continue To talk everyday, but sometimes I feel like she likes me and then other times I feel like she just wants me as her friend. More recently, she has been informing me of other girls that are attracted to me at her school. Is she interested in me or am I just a friend? Opinions please. Lol
Qboro90 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 I'm going to guess that you both are young and in high school most likely. This girl likes you. She is just too shy or nervous or inexperienced to outright say it to you. First of all, it's 2015... No one accidentally texts a guy/girl friend/crush the breakup text that she meant to send to her bf.... If she was breaking up with him via text then they would've been having a conversation that lead up to it, not just a perfectly explained quick message that lets YOU know she's single. She did it on purpose to let you know she doesn't have a BF anymore. She's asking/telling you about other girls because she wants to see if you are attracted it interested in anyone else. She's a young girl and this is how young girls go about crushes and finding out information they want. It's cute and you should be confident knowing that she likes you too. Ask her on a date, you'll be pleasantly surprised at her excitement.
scooby-philly Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 Ok - at the one poster HE SAID THEY WERE CO-WORKERS. Read the Goddamn post before responding!!!!! @the poster: That's a tought call. She may regard you only as a friend - a safe person to talk to who she can open up to & not be judged. Maybe she would be open even to a little fwb, but not a relationship. if that's the case she may be serious about the women liking you Of course, the opposite may be true - she may be into you and these are all signals - "accidentally" texting you. Texting you more. Telling you about the other women to see how you react. I'm not the best at picking up on or interpreting signals but I'd say this warrants action. Action as in - stop texting and ask her out - even if it's just for coffee. Say "hey - i'm tired of texting all the time, but I like our conversations - can we just grab a cup of coffee instead of texting next time". Or a beer, or whatever you think would work. You got to find out the truth. And see how she reacts. If she says yes, pay attention to her signals when you're with her - touching you, playing with her hair, smiling. Pick a time when it won't conflict with your schedule so you don't feel rushed and see how it goes.... Even if you're still not sure just enjoy - if she talks forever and then says "OMG" and apologizes for taking so much time, say "It's good." if you end up thinking she's really into you, don't let her leave...extend the time - a walk, food, a second cup. or... at least walk her to her car and see if a kiss can be had.
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