grokcahsevol Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 I feel f*cken great! It'd be nice if this can last Met a cool girl few weeks ago at a concert. We went to another yesterday, she was being very flirty and we are going to another concert this weekend and another on labor day! Anyway, a piece of advice. Go out! even if it's by your self! You should be going out by your self anyways and start loving your self and enjoy hanging out by your self. I went to the first concert by myself a few weeks ago, and I said one thing and bam! awesome cool girl now a flirty friend! 3
Gus Grimly Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Anyway, a piece of advice. Go out! even if it's by your self! You should be going out by your self anyways and start loving your self and enjoy hanging out by your self. That's good advice. It's tough when you are feeling slow down, but if you can push yourself you'll be happy you did.
Chi townD Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!!!! Go out into the world! Put yourself out there! See what there is to see! Awesome post from grokcahsevol! Went to a concert and just opened his mouth and just said "Hi!" or whatever....next thing he knows, he's hanging around a cool girl that seems to be into him! Does that work everytime? Nope! But, sometimes it does! But, you'll never know until you try! By you not putting yourself out there and meeting new people, you're willingly letting possible opportunities pass you by. Good on ya, grokcahsevol! Congrats!
Author grokcahsevol Posted August 6, 2015 Author Posted August 6, 2015 Thanks! Trust me when I say this... if I can do it.. ANYONE can I am SUPER introverted and this is something I am working on, not that it's a terrible thing but making new friends and talking to people has always been a struggle for me.
Chi townD Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Hey, sometimes you have to go outside your comfort zone in order to get what you want! Things don't usually come to you, you have to go to it. And sometimes you get lucky. This thread got me motivated again. Thanks for that! Love hearing about the success people are having! Very refreshing.
Ariess10 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 That's great , but not for me !! I'm done dating so I won't be back here .. You guys are cool don't get me wrong .. But I won't be back beacuse of a broken heart again !!
Author grokcahsevol Posted August 7, 2015 Author Posted August 7, 2015 Hey, sometimes you have to go outside your comfort zone in order to get what you want! Things don't usually come to you, you have to go to it. And sometimes you get lucky. This thread got me motivated again. Thanks for that! Love hearing about the success people are having! Very refreshing. No problem! Yes, you really have to go out of your comfort zone in order to get what you want and in order to move on. You gotta do new things, even the most slightest things can help. That's great , but not for me !! I'm done dating so I won't be back here .. You guys are cool don't get me wrong .. But I won't be back beacuse of a broken heart again !! Not sure what your background story is but it sounds like you had your heart broken once before, were you able to get over it with time? if so, then you'll be able to pass this one as well! Go out and do things that make you happy!
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