Camaro Guy Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 As I've been getting better and better with socializing with women and seeing my friends who aren't, I've been noticing that getting good with women and having relationships and having sex on a frequent basis doesn't just happen like out of nowhere. It needs to be built up and constructed. I know a lot of guys who think that a girl will just magically be into them and accept them as they are without little to no improvement of themselves. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. I'll say that success with women is like a spiral. Failure is as well. If you're doing well, you'll be continuing to do well. If you're doing bad, you will continue to do as bad. This is one of the natural laws of life. Have you noticed how rich people continue to get richer and poor people continue to get poorer? Successful people tend to get more successful? There's a reason for that. It's called momentum. The more you have, the better. That's why I desperately encourage guys to go out and meet women especially in cold approach. Not because you'll get a girl but because you will become more accustomed to talking to girls with the intent of more than just friends. If you already have a lot of girls who are friends then you don't need more friends. What if you're trapped in the spiral of failure? What do you do? You need to find some way to unplug from it. I had a friend of mine literally yank me out of the paradigm of negative thinking and thought habits that I had and I thank God everyday that I met him. He pretty much said to me "I can show you another way but it's not going to be easy and you'll have to change." It was like when Neo met Morpheus in the Matrix. He got me out. If you don't have someone like that in your life and you want to change, then you'll need to make small steps. You need to really want to change. We all have the potential to create the life we want but it must actively be cultivated. We must be vigilant. It's possible guys. Just wanted to let you know that. 2
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 As I've been getting better and better with socializing with women and seeing my friends who aren't, I've been noticing that getting good with women and having relationships and having sex on a frequent basis doesn't just happen like out of nowhere. It needs to be built up and constructed. I know a lot of guys who think that a girl will just magically be into them and accept them as they are without little to no improvement of themselves. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. I'll say that success with women is like a spiral. Failure is as well. If you're doing well, you'll be continuing to do well. If you're doing bad, you will continue to do as bad. This is one of the natural laws of life. Have you noticed how rich people continue to get richer and poor people continue to get poorer? Successful people tend to get more successful? There's a reason for that. It's called momentum. The more you have, the better. That's why I desperately encourage guys to go out and meet women especially in cold approach. Not because you'll get a girl but because you will become more accustomed to talking to girls with the intent of more than just friends. If you already have a lot of girls who are friends then you don't need more friends. What if you're trapped in the spiral of failure? What do you do? You need to find some way to unplug from it. I had a friend of mine literally yank me out of the paradigm of negative thinking and thought habits that I had and I thank God everyday that I met him. He pretty much said to me "I can show you another way but it's not going to be easy and you'll have to change." It was like when Neo met Morpheus in the Matrix. He got me out. If you don't have someone like that in your life and you want to change, then you'll need to make small steps. You need to really want to change. We all have the potential to create the life we want but it must actively be cultivated. We must be vigilant. It's possible guys. Just wanted to let you know that. Where did you start off mainly cold approaching women at?
Author Camaro Guy Posted August 7, 2015 Author Posted August 7, 2015 Where did you start off mainly cold approaching women at? I started going out to bars a month and a half before I started cold approaching so I could get conversational practice with girls. I just started solo cold approaching anywhere. But that doesn't matter. The reason why you don't get girls is because there's weakness in you. You're too much of a pussy. It's fine, I was like that too. But you must know that women do not like this whatsoever. They absolutely despise it and they will punish you for it. You need to eliminate this weakness from you if you wish to progress.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 I started going out to bars a month and a half before I started cold approaching so I could get conversational practice with girls. I just started solo cold approaching anywhere. But that doesn't matter. The reason why you don't get girls is because there's weakness in you. You're too much of a pussy. It's fine, I was like that too. But you must know that women do not like this whatsoever. They absolutely despise it and they will punish you for it. You need to eliminate this weakness from you if you wish to progress. That's pretty obvious, so I take it cold approaching at the mall is a place you did it as well too?
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 I started going out to bars a month and a half before I started cold approaching so I could get conversational practice with girls. I just started solo cold approaching anywhere. But that doesn't matter. The reason why you don't get girls is because there's weakness in you. You're too much of a pussy. It's fine, I was like that too. But you must know that women do not like this whatsoever. They absolutely despise it and they will punish you for it. You need to eliminate this weakness from you if you wish to progress. How did you eliminate that weakness
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