lawrences24 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 (edited) So we have been speaking for a week now and we have got on so well. She got kittens this week and her mum is away so she has to look after them alone. She originally wanted to go on a date but she cancelled which I understand because I have a cat and I know how much time they can take up and the last thing you want to do is leave them on their own. I am worried that she might be losing interest though because we are leaving it quite a while to meet up. She said we can meet next Tuesday but it feels like ages away. We have quite a lot in common and very similar personalities but I really am thinking she is losing interest. We don’t seem to talk in the mornings anymore like we used to and our conversations aren’t as much anymore. I’m tearing my hair out at the moment! I suffer from Bi Polar disorder so it’s hard to find anyone! She has been very understanding about it as well and said it doesn’t bother her at all but I don’t want that taking over and cause me to mess things up. I over think things all the time thinking and over fantasize all the time. She has told me she isn't losing interest. I know we all have lives to live as well so it could be that. I can't help the way I am or think though! Edited August 6, 2015 by lawrences24
Alyssa_in_the_USA_58 Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 Your bipolar is going to be am impediment to your having a healthy relationship. I hope that you are getting help for that. I can say, for me, that even if someone is the nicest guy in the world, insecurity is going to get old, and will override your good qualities. A bit of a personal story, a guy I am dating right now suggested earlier in the week that we go out this weekend to one of his favorite restaurants (I have a question myself on this site about the date). We are both excited about it, so I can relate to the "eternity", since things are going well. Because of our work schedules, we cannot talk all 7 days of the week, and it is a little rough when we can't talk. I can relate to how you feel, but it would not be proper to leave voicemails and text him 20 times a day, either. Point being, I'm afraid your bipolar is going to cause you to do something that will ultimately be interpreted as possessive, or smothering, or even harassing, for that matter. While I want to be an important in a guy's world, I do not want to be his entire world. Does that make sense? I think most other women would agree with me. She seems to be patient with you, but you need to keep in mind that it is not unlimited.
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