how to tell if they are in a relationship

[down hearted]

So there is this guy at work, he's very interesting who has caught my attention. However, how would you find out if they have a girlfriend or are in a relationship? Obviously if they are its a huge no, ok moving on and calling it a day kind of thing. I barely am at work, but the few times ive seen him he's just so interesting to me and we talk a bit not a lot, but he just really caught my eye, i find him very appealing personality wise and i would really enjoy at least a friendship kind of deal.

 

I find girls who ask guys out so brave, or at least try to get to know them, but i certainly do not have that courage. Honestly i barely know how to approach him.

So how would you go about figuring out if they are in a relationship, a guy like that i take must have to be in one he sure is appealing, but how to know for sure?

I never see him on his phone, and he picks up extra hours here and there.

We joke around here and there and talk a bit but not much.

....I wish i could find a way to get to know him better without been weird lol

[d0nnivain]

Are there photos on his desk?

 

 

You can ask the obvious Q next time you are hanging out: How does your GF feel about you hanging out with female co-workers?

[torturedartist]

So there is this guy at work, he's very interesting who has caught my attention. However, how would you find out if they have a girlfriend or are in a relationship? Obviously if they are its a huge no, ok moving on and calling it a day kind of thing. I barely am at work, but the few times ive seen him he's just so interesting to me and we talk a bit not a lot, but he just really caught my eye, i find him very appealing personality wise and i would really enjoy at least a friendship kind of deal.

 

I find girls who ask guys out so brave, or at least try to get to know them, but i certainly do not have that courage. Honestly i barely know how to approach him.

So how would you go about figuring out if they are in a relationship, a guy like that i take must have to be in one he sure is appealing, but how to know for sure?

I never see him on his phone, and he picks up extra hours here and there.

We joke around here and there and talk a bit but not much.

....I wish i could find a way to get to know him better without been weird lol

 

When I want to know if someone is in a relationship what I do is sit outside their house in my car and watch them, and take lots of pictures and video. Then later in the day I develop all the photos and plaster them on a shrine I've made to them in one small area of my house.

 

Either that, or I look them up on Facebook.

[Gary S]

Write your phone number on something and give it to him, or put your number in his phone.....that will answer all your questions.

[h0000]

I once tried to figure if a guy is in a relationship. When we talked,he never mentioned any couple activities, never talked about any other girls, always said "with friends" if I asked specifically.

One day I just straight forwardly asked "do you have a gf" and he tried to laugh it off. But I insisted to get an answer and he finally said yes

LOL

[ZA Dater]

I spent ages trying to figure out if people are single or not. Eventually.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I just gave up.

[joseb]

When I want to know if someone is in a relationship what I do is sit outside their house in my car and watch them, and take lots of pictures and video. Then later in the day I develop all the photos and plaster them on a shrine I've made to them in one small area of my house.

 

Either that, or I look them up on Facebook.

 

The problem with Facebook stalking is that not everyone displays their relationship status.

Best to stalk for real.

 

Or you could just casually ask about their partner.

[candie13]

ha... sorry, girl, there's not much you can do, but continue to flirt and be patient... if he's interested and the flirting gets a bit heavier, you can do a bolder move... but until then, grin and bear it.