E-Squared Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 What do you think I should do about this? We're friendly, by the way. I talk to her. Sometimes I'll call her, and we get along great. She is about 45, by the way, and I turn 29 in less than two weeks. If I recall, she was dating some guy a while back, but I am not sure if they are still together. Plus, she had told me as a compliment that, and I quote, she would do me. Of course, I don't know why she said that when I had mentioned to her about something a little bit unrelated about a weird woman talking to herself. Of course, that is not to say that I was not flattered by the comment. It was not an invitation, but if it were, I would not be opposed to it. In case you are wondering, we know each other through the college that we go to, and we met on a public transit bus. Every time I see her, I feel like I should talk to her, so I do, but also I get these desires in my system. Should I try pursuing a sexual relationship with her? Like I said, we're cool with each other, but my attraction to her is mainly physical.
Gloria25 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Well, she "did" make clear that she found you "doable"... But, you just can't walk up to her and be like "hey, lemme take you up on that offer" I think best thing is to chat her up casually and if she's warm, ask her if you and her could have a drink sometime. She's older, knows what she wants and what she told you. I believe by asking her about drinks she will be clear that she knows what you REALLY mean. Hey, as long as you can handle it, I say go for it. I believe almost every guy - at some point in his life - has had a Mrs. Robinson/cougar moment in his life that left him with a big smile of memories Oh, when I meant "handle it" is if you're gonna be ready for the Mack Truck of her prowess!!! 1
still_an_Angel Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 If she is also attracted to you then why not? As long as you clarify your boundaries and tell her its just a physical attraction, you should go for it.It will be up to her if she's ok with what you can offer. 1
loveflower Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 so just lust, not love? so you are not considering long term with her? would you ever consider in a long term relationship with a much older woman? just wondering..
Author E-Squared Posted August 6, 2015 Author Posted August 6, 2015 so just lust, not love? so you are not considering long term with her? would you ever consider in a long term relationship with a much older woman? just wondering.. Well, there was this one time when this older woman admitted that she liked me. She is roughly the same gap, though this was less than two years ago when this happened. The woman was 41 and I was only 27 at the time. She was on the verge of divorcing her husband at the time. She has since divorced him, but is now living with some other guy who she is dating. I then told her that I was a lot younger than her and she didn't realize that I was that much younger than her.
fireflywy Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Lol. I was thinking the same thing and was about to post the ol Simon and Garfunkle tune.
SammySammy Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Do it. Or you'll forever look back and wonder "what if". 1
Grumpybutfun Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Men chase teenagers..wtf are you asking? If you need persmission to have sex, maybe you aren't mature enough to actually have sex. Geez, G
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