HereNorThere Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 No, it isn't, not to them, not to anyone who knows them. Not even sure why you think it is, it is THE term used to refer to that type of person. I looked it up before I wrote my first post and the conclusion I came to was that unless someone specifically identified as a "ladyboy" they were more likely to prefer to be referred to as transgendered or whichever gender they identified as. Since this person did not refer herself as a ladyboy, it seemed offensive to refer to her as one. However, given your extensive posting on the Asian sex trade, I will concede my argument. I know when someone has more expertise in a certain field and this is definitely your territory. I respectfully withdrawal my statement. Sincerely, HereNorThere
smackie9 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Thanks for those replies. I dont find anything wrong with ladyboys or trans but its just that i am not really into it and main problem here is she might be lying to me about all this and I wouldnt know. Hence its a problem for me Well she doesn't care about my money as she never really asked about anything related to money so no she isn't looking for a sugar daddy. I know someone who felt the same way, but it was quiet evident when he got her to Canada, with her pregnant.....then a year after the kid was born, she went running around with other men in her designer clothes that he foolishly bought for her.
yxalitis Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 No, it's not...not in their culture. And, that's where he met *her*...on *her* home turf. It is as much an obligation as it is my obligation to state, when meeting men at a non-gay establishment, "Hey...I just want to make sure you know I am a heterosexual woman, who was born a woman, have always been a woman and intend on always being a woman. Just want to make sure you're OK with that..." Again, you're putting Western standards of Western cultures on a land that has their own standards and their own culture; you don't get to do that when visiting Rome... ...or any other 'foreign' country...as OP was. Rubbish... this has absolutely NOTHING to do with culture! Ladyboys KNOW that most western men that pick them up think they are woman. Remember, it wasn’t someone from her own culture, as you put it, so this innate knowledge you think exists doesn’t even apply here. For their own safety, they let the guys know early on that down stairs there is more than expected. Some guys who find out will react violently. Your analogy is preposterous, if you were once a man, than maybe, yeah, that’s something you might like to mention. 1
mystikmind2005 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 I know someone who felt the same way, but it was quiet evident when he got her to Canada, with her pregnant.....then a year after the kid was born, she went running around with other men in her designer clothes that he foolishly bought for her. Let me guess, he picked a younger woman?
Gary S Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 That's gonna be one heck of a honeymoon if OP finds out she's not a girl
flordagirl Posted August 9, 2015 Posted August 9, 2015 Just flat out ask her. Make it crystal clear what your expectations are; if you want a woman that was born with a vagina, make sure she understands that. Better to make it clear now than continue the LDR and end up disappointed later.
yxalitis Posted August 13, 2015 Posted August 13, 2015 Let me guess, he picked a younger woman? No, he picked the wrong woman...age aint got anything to do with it.
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