thecomputerguy Posted August 5, 2015 Posted August 5, 2015 TL;DR at the end for you lazy folks I've been talking with this girl for 4 weeks now and her texting has been sporadic by days. A few days she will be texting me constantly, being all "cute" and flirty and next couple days seems like she is busy. Although I know shes not being on The Facebook and works schedule. She will text me if I don't text her back sometimes within a few hours on those on days. There is an age difference I'm 26, she is 20 and I'm immature for my age, she is mature for hers. Unfortunately, met her online and have noticed that she deleted her profile after a couple weeks of talking, but this could easily be because of all the attention shes getting that she doesn't want. Have had two dates and planned a third. First date went well, mainly talked got food and coffee. Second date was planned but then the last minute she cancelled because she was "sick" and I'm an hour and a half away. So, I assumed that was it, but she was more than apologetic so I figured I'd give her another shot. Had another date a week later and that also went well - bowling, food, coffee, and talked for hours. Only kissed, however, she mentioned sex during the date in conversation multiple times - obvious hints. And like most people these days was on her phone every now and then. Here is the rub. Each date we've had was for Sundays, which is a horrible day to go out cause everything is closed. She specifically told me she has off the following weekend and is free. I told her Id get back to her on what I'm doing that following weekend. A day later I did and she said she is busy except of course Sunday. Question at hand, Does this sound like a FWB, Multidater, or just a 20 year old situation? She says she wants a serious relationship. Constructive criticism appreciated, not like: F@cK B*tches get money lol TL;DR: Texting girl for 4 weeks, met online, 3 good dates but only wants to meet on Sundays. Is she FWB, Multidater, or just being 20 years old?
Lois_Griffin Posted August 5, 2015 Posted August 5, 2015 Only kissed, however, she mentioned sex during the date in conversation multiple times - obvious hints. And like most people these days was on her phone every now and then. Golly. What a catch. She's spent 7 or 8 hours together with you and wants to have sex already - in between texting her bimbo friends and posting selfies on Instagram. Ugh. Question at hand, Does this sound like a FWB, Multidater, or just a 20 year old situation? She says she wants a serious relationship. LOL. She's 20 years old and is open to having sex with anyone she spends a few hours with. She can't even keep the same ring tone on her beloved phone for more than 17 hours, much less dedicate herself to an adult relationship. If you're looking for probable STDs and a whole lot of drama with it, I say go for it. Surely you don't think she's visiting the nursing home on Friday and Saturday nights, comforting the dementia patients?
Author thecomputerguy Posted August 5, 2015 Author Posted August 5, 2015 Thanks for the reply. Golly. What a catch. She's spent 7 or 8 hours together with you and wants to have sex already - in between texting her bimbo friends and posting selfies on Instagram. Ugh. LOL. She's 20 years old and is open to having sex with anyone she spends a few hours with. She can't even keep the same ring tone on her beloved phone for more than 17 hours, much less dedicate herself to an adult relationship. If you're looking for probable STDs and a whole lot of drama with it, I say go for it. Surely you don't think she's visiting the nursing home on Friday and Saturday nights, comforting the dementia patients? Haha good point. Drama seems to have no age though as I've noticed so its all in what you can handle. Nah, I'm not THAT naive, just sometimes need someone to state the obvious lol
scooby-philly Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 I agree She's 20 and is probably horny. If you want to hit it - hit it. If you think she's going to change anytime soon or you want something more - move on. This is a pretty straightforward situation
Author thecomputerguy Posted August 7, 2015 Author Posted August 7, 2015 I agree She's 20 and is probably horny. If you want to hit it - hit it. If you think she's going to change anytime soon or you want something more - move on. This is a pretty straightforward situation Yup, makes the most sense. Just not used to that sort of thing, have had all long relationships thusfar. Although it doesn't bother me to do so.
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