joefr Posted August 4, 2015 Posted August 4, 2015 I haven't been on this forum for a couple years now but i'm back and I fell amazing. So I've taking this girl out a few times the past week and now it seems that its make or break time. So before i delve in on my current situation I would like to give a little back story. This girl and I are both 18 and recently graduated High School. She leaves for college at the end of this month and i'm going into a trade program in September. 3 years ago she had a MASSIVE crush on me but I choose another girl instead of her. So fast forward to now. She texted me in July saying that see misses me and stuff like that but I still wasn't interested because I was seeing a few other girls. I kept texting her because I liked the the validation I got from her. I kept texting her and realized that we had a lot in common and as you can guess I started to really like her. I started flirting with her and she responded really well so I asked her out and the first 2 dates(if you can call them that) Went really good. I was really pushing to hook up but she would only let me hold her hand. Not even a kiss. That really through me off. So the night before our 3rd outing she started snapchating me really revealing pictures of her which tells me shes into me. So I took her out and I had a good time but I was late getting her back to work and she was really concerned about it. She texted me a few hours later Her 5:22pm: HI BAE Me 5:54pm: Oh you're my bae now? Whats up Her 5:55pm: i got fried Chicken Me 5:55pm: Church's? Her 6:31pm: i don't think we can hang out anymore. Her 6:31pm: Atleast while i'm at work Me 6:32pm: Yeah I think the same. But I had a good day today. Her 6:33pm: I just got yelled at like crazy by my parents and its an uncomfortable felling. And so did I. Thank you for taking me. Me 6:36pm: You're welcome! Im sorry if i got you in trouble, that wasn't my intention. Her 6:39pm: Its fine. Me 6:41pm: I guess we will just have to plan what we are doing next time Her 6:42pm: Whenever college starts you can visit whenever. Me 6:43pm: So like we cant see each other at all. And I will visit u. Her 7:03pm: yay Me 7:09pm: Lets go see a movie this weekend.(She typically doesn't work weekends) Her 7:09pm: Cant Me 7:09pm: why Her 7:10pm: I have work this weekend. Me 7:12pm: Oh. well this is gonna suck suck some major ass... Her 7:13pm: why. Me 7:14pm: Cause im not gonna be able to see you Her 7:15pm: Im sorry Her 8:33pm: ok Me 8:36pm: I really don't know what to say hahaha. I haven't gotten a reply since then. I'm not really upset or sad but I like her a lot. Should I say something or continue on my path and hit her up in a few months. She was also saying to me how she "Curved" 3 boys the day we went out and how one of them said that he wanted to **** her brains out. I wasn't concerned because she was with me. I really don't want to let go but like I said before, I went an entire year with out talking to her. A few other girls have hit me up today. I don't want them I want her. What do I do? Any advice would be great, thanks.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 4, 2015 Posted August 4, 2015 I'm not totally clear why she can't see you again. Why did her parents yell at her? If she got in trouble with her parents for seeing you, do the respectful thing and back off. What do you want from her? To actually date her or to hook up with her? Also, I don't have any idea what it means to be "curve" someone.
fitnessfan365 Posted August 4, 2015 Posted August 4, 2015 Man, talk about a weird segue. She jumps from "Hey bae, I got fried chicken" to "I don't think we can hang out anymore". Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do at this point. Her saying she doesn't want to hang out anymore and then not responding to your text seems like a pretty obvious sign. So I'd just leave the ball in her court. If she reaches out, make plans with her. But otherwise, it's not something you can force.
dpn4u Posted August 4, 2015 Posted August 4, 2015 (edited) Text her (ONCE!) on Sunday night and ask her how her day went. In the mean time go out with da boys. Don't be pushy. If she texts you back great if she doesn't move on. Edited August 4, 2015 by dpn4u
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