rs8 Posted May 7, 2005 Posted May 7, 2005 my GF is rather shy and anti PDA. so i have great deal of trouble telling whats going on with her. I love her alot, but wish she would be a little more affectionate when in the company of friends/public. any ideas on what i should do here?
faux Posted May 7, 2005 Posted May 7, 2005 Some people don't like PDA, including me. I don't like watching other couples grope one another when I am outside, so I assume that most people would not want to see me groping my girlfriend when I go outside. Hand holding and hugging are fine to me, but nothing excessive. Some people don't view public displays of affection as a respectable things to do. Maybe your girlfriend has a different opinion about PDA than you, and you should talk to her about those feelings. You are going to have to respect how she feels; if you can't, and this is very important to you, perhaps she is not the right girl. I don't think it will be too hard to find out how she feels about this if you ask her. When you said that your girlfriend is shy, is this what you meant, or does she also have problems talking to other people and integrating into society?
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