So, moving on... sort of

[DK666]

So it's in the 6th week after the breakup, day 29 of NC. I've had 4 days of feeling crap, preceded by 10 days of feeling great.

 

I've been hitting the OND scene seeing what's around, and I actually met someone who I clicked with pretty much instantly and if circumstances were different I could potentially develop feelings for (on PoF in-case you were wondering). But the problem? She lives 5200 miles away. I am in the UK, she is in Arizona. She messaged me first and we were sending a message or two max a day, and then over the weekend we had a long conversation over messaging, followed by a 3 hour phone call, plus she called me yesterday during her lunch break. We've really hit it off in a big way it seems, but it's so frustrating that the only person I can find is a 10+ hour flight away.

 

I'm not really looking for any answers here, I kinda just felt the need to vent.

[Dudearino]

Dont know how long your previous relationship was, but if you still don't have a clear mind I'd probably just enjoy the company to talk to someone doesn't matter where you are. Just don't want to get into a rebound situation.

 

Personally online dating is cool if its people nearby. It takes alot to date someone so far away. Lot of energy & thinking "what if" all the time.

 

Bottom line...just enjoy the conversationa

[darkbloom]

Hopefully she is a sane arizona girl! Most of the girls in this state are cheaters.

[DK666]

I'm definitely trying to avoid the rebound situation. Was with last girl for just under 2 years, she dumped me and jumped into another RS 2 weeks later.

 

And yeah I'm not expecting anything, it just feels good to connect with someone as it seems most women/girls in my area are spoiled little princesses.

[Lostgirl50]

I agree with the other posters- enjoy the conversations. You are still in recovery mode. You are healing. It is great you have found someone to talk to. Enjoy it.