My heart is borken three times in a year, something is wrong with me!

[zetu]

Well, as i said in my title, I have sufferred from terible heart-brokeness for three times in the past year.

 

The first one, things were going extremely well. We got to a point where we became lovers and everything but she suddenly broken up with me withou any reason at all.

 

I met another girl a few months after. Again things going well, but when i made my move in telling her about my feeling she said she could only see me as a friend.

 

The same things happen now. I like the girl and she also really likes me. But it is only for friendship.

 

First, what is wrong with me. Why can i only be a good friend but not a boyfriend?

 

Second, why i get too much into love emotionally this easy? For all this ocassion, I suffered alot. I am sufferring it now. I couldn't eat properly, I couldn't sleep properly and the typical sympton, i couldn't breathe from times to times.

 

Third, this time is worst. For the first two occassion, i didt have any personel connection with them and hence it was slightly easier to move on.

But this time the girl is from work and we hang out alot such as having luhcn and taking the same train everying day together. It will be much harder to move on.

 

I really need some help. Or just please say someting.

 

I find it really really diffcult.

[LittleAce]

I just want to ask you,do you consider yourself a person that another person would want to be with? Everything starts from this question and so many times happening should be a hint for you to start improving yourself.

 

Or,they are just not interested on you or are not ready to be in a relationship. Or maybe you just met the wrong person.

[zetu]

I thought they enjoyed being with me. No I actually can clearly say that. That's why i said things were going really really well. I don't think they were pretending.

 

Yea, you are right, i should be a good learner.

 

But this love thing is super scary to me now.

[mtnbiker3000]

How old are you?