Qboro90 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Your best bet here would be to install some kind of camera or recording device that can monitor your car in the future while at his house. It's the only way to get a definitive answer. It's in no way over reacting or unreasonable to do. And if you bring it up to him stress that it's not because you think it's his ex either. Just say that you're concerned about your car and if it's someone from the neighborhood you want to make sure that this stops. Two incidents are already enough to make me worry so take the precaution going forward. At the very least a camera would prevent any further damage.
anduina Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 You have no proof that it was the ex who broke into your car. Your boyfriend has told you that she wasn't prone to this type of behaviour and that she was the one who didn't want him any more. So why are you so certain that she's responsible? Are you threatened by her in some way?
Author Spunkydiva08 Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 Sure, I'm threatened by someone I've never met. I'm not certain it's her. It could be one of the women he's dated. It could be anyone. But I personally know from experience what an ex wife can be capable of. In my career I've seen it first hand.
RebelWithoutACause Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 How would she know you were spending the night on those 2 occasions? Does she live close by? Where was their daughter on those nights? If she was with the mother it would be very unlikely she'd leave her home alone in the middle of the night in order to go out and vandalize your car.
Author Spunkydiva08 Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 Good point. I guess we'll have to see how this plays out.
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