Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I don't think you like her that much. Interesting that you call her your girlfriend... 3
xxoo Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 This thread does make me laugh. Esp since she said she'll think about it If she says yes, you'd better show her a good time. No pressure 3
katiegrl Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 (edited) I don't think you like her that much. Interesting that you call her your girlfriend... I was just about to post that same thing! One week ago (July 24) he was single, and vowing no romantic relationships for awhile as his life is in a *state of flux.* One week later he has a *girlfriend*. Bizarre. Edited August 2, 2015 by katiegrl 2
RoseVille Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 This thread does make me laugh. Esp since she said she'll think about it If she says yes, you'd better show her a good time. No pressure Doormats do that. They're not already in a sexual relationship. A man who respects a woman doesn't say what he did. He says, "I really want us to spend some time together before I go." Not something so crass. 4
MidwestUSA Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 This thread does make me laugh. Esp since she said she'll think about it If she says yes, you'd better show her a good time. No pressure No pressure at all. But he'd better start taking the extended use Cialis now, and have some Viagra on standby. Just in case all parties aren't cooperative at the actual moment. WTF? 2
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Doormats do that. They're not already in a sexual relationship. A man who respects a woman doesn't say what he did. He says, "I really want us to spend some time together before I go." Not something so crass. Thankfully the wo,an in question is not you, right? 1
katiegrl Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Doormats do that. They're not already in a sexual relationship. A man who respects a woman doesn't say what he did. He says, "I really want us to spend some time together before I go." Not something so crass. I agree. They just met for heaven's sake. In fact I am wondering if he said it knowing it was crude, hoping to push her away cause he's leaving. BTW, kenmore, is she one of the women who complimented you on your shirt? Lol If not when and how did you meet? Just curious, as last week you were 100% single ...and not dating anyone. This week, you have a girlfriend. Quick escalalation there from nothing to major something! 1
RoseVille Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Thankfully the wo,an in question is not you, right? That would never happen to me. Men on Tinder, yes. A man I'm dating, who's my boyfriend, who I haven't slept with yet? HA. He'd KNOW my reaction. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I agree. They just met for heaven's sake. In fact I am wondering if he said it knowing it was crude, hoping to push her away cause he's leaving. BTW, kenmore, is she one of the women who complimented you on your shirt? Lol If not when and how did you meet? Just curious, as last week you were 100% single ...and not dating anyone. This week, you have a girlfriend. Quick escalalation there from nothing to major something! Pft, the brotha is leavin soon. Perfect time to go balls to the wall. 2
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 That would never happen to me. Men on Tinder, yes. A man I'm dating, who's my boyfriend, who I haven't slept with yet? HA. He'd KNOW my reaction. You know, we oft mention things that would never happen to us...until the right person comes along 1
katiegrl Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Pft, the brotha is leavin soon. Perfect time to go balls to the wall. Not buying it. He's a grown man, not some immature 16 year old. If he really wanted to have sex with her, no way would he have worded it like that. Not buying it. Read his history, he knows better and no doubt he knew it would not be received well. If this story is even true, IMO he said it to push her away as he's leaving and wants no romantic entanglements prior to. He said as much last week on a different thread. 2
xxoo Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Doormats do that. They're not already in a sexual relationship. A man who respects a woman doesn't say what he did. He says, "I really want us to spend some time together before I go." Not something so crass. Is it the crass vocab that is offputting? Or the direct suggestion of getting it on before they part forever? The vocab doesn't bother me. But if you're going to use that word, you'd better bring it in bed And deciding to have a good lay with someone you like a lot doesn't make a woman a doormat. It hopefully means she's a mature woman who understands what she's been offered and wants it, too. 3
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Not buying it. He's a grown man, not some immature 16 year old. If he really wanted to have sex with her, no way would he have worded it like that. Not buying it. Read his history, he knows better and no doubt he knew it would not be received well. If this story is even true, IMO he said it to push her away as he's leaving and wants no romantic entanglements prior to. He said as much last week on a different thread. Sure he may have even worded it differently, but the intention is the same. Just imagine Katie, the stud of your dreams was leaving forever, never to be seen again. But before he does, he wants to have some hot, passionate sex with you one last time. Do you think you'd be strong enough to resist? 1
katiegrl Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Is it the crass vocab that is offputting? Or the direct suggestion of getting it on before they part forever? The vocab doesn't bother me. But if you're going to use that word, you'd better bring it in bed And deciding to have a good lay with someone you like a lot doesn't make a woman a doormat. It hopefully means she's a mature woman who understands what she's been offered and wants it, too. xxoo, keep in my mind they met less than one week ago. If a man I had just met a few days ago asked me to fu*k (in those words), I might suggest to him he go fu*k himself instead. In an established relationship? Heck yeah! In fact I am often the one telling my boyfriend to **** me! Usually in the heat of passion! 9
katiegrl Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Sure he may have even worded it differently, but the intention is the same. Just imagine Katie, the stud of your dreams was leaving forever, never to be seen again. But before he does, he wants to have some hot, passionate sex with you one last time. Do you think you'd be strong enough to resist? Haha, probably not, but the stud of my dreams would have handled the entire situation differently...and not put it so bluntly and crassly. Not to mention, the stud of my dreams would be discussing with me how we were going to navigate a long distance relationship, not asking me to ****, only to never see me again. 3
RoseVille Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Is it the crass vocab that is offputting? Or the direct suggestion of getting it on before they part forever? The vocab doesn't bother me. But if you're going to use that word, you'd better bring it in bed And deciding to have a good lay with someone you like a lot doesn't make a woman a doormat. It hopefully means she's a mature woman who understands what she's been offered and wants it, too. I am an incredibly sexual woman and LOVE a good lay, but I've never had a man I just met who I've only kissed suggest we F**K before he leaves town and I never see him again. He may as well have contacted a random girl on Tinder and said, "DTF?" It's the same thing. It shows what little respect he has for her. He may as well have said, "Lemme use you as a sperm receptacle before I take off." I mean, really? Would you accept such an invite from a guy you just met?? 5
Hope Shimmers Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I had to look at the username of the poster three times before I could believe it was actually kenmore who said that. Talk about disrespectful. Just unbelievable. And you sound like you are sorry you took this job. Are you?
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Haha, probably not, but the stud of my dreams would have handled the entire situation differently...and not put it so bluntly and crassly. Not to mention, the stud of my dreams would be discussing with me how we were going to navigate a long distance relationship, not asking me to ****, only to never see me again. Uh huh... Now we gettin somewhere.
xxoo Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I am an incredibly sexual woman and LOVE a good lay, but I've never had a man I just met who I've only kissed suggest we F**K before he leaves town and I never see him again. He may as well have contacted a random girl on Tinder and said, "DTF?" It's the same thing. It shows what little respect he has for her. He may as well have said, "Lemme use you as a sperm receptacle before I take off." I mean, really? Would you accept such an invite from a guy you just met?? I don't know. It depends on how long it's been since I had sex Seriously, though, 2 points: He's calling her his girlfriend, which implies some sort of "knowing each other" (although completely not clear to me) I don't see people here saying he shouldn't try to sleep with her before leaving. I see people saying he should be less crass about it, more romantic: flowers, phrasing like "spend time together". To me, that is being disingenuous and disrespectful. I'd much prefer the straightforward offer that I could accept or refuse for what it is. If the sexual tension is obvious, I wouldn't be offended by the offer. I'd understand, even if I refused. 3
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I don't know. It depends on how long it's been since I had sex Seriously, though, 2 points: He's calling her his girlfriend, which implies some sort of "knowing each other" (although completely not clear to me) I don't see people here saying he shouldn't try to sleep with her before leaving. I see people saying he should be less crass about it, more romantic: flowers, phrasing like "spend time together". To me, that is being disingenuous and disrespectful. I'd much prefer the straightforward offer that I could accept or refuse for what it is. If the sexual tension is obvious, I wouldn't be offended by the offer. I'd understand, even if I refused. Round of applause for this. It's quite nice there's some girls out there with an appreciation for the direct approach. 2
Amalyn Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Judging by her response, I actually think she'll do it. I almost think it's better that he was straight to the point about it. 3
brok3npromise Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 LMAO This entire thread made my Sunday. Please let us know if you f*ck 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Judging by her response, I actually think she'll do it. I almost think it's better that he was straight to the point about it. Agreed. Being direct can get you rather far in a man's world.
katiegrl Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 bwahahaha....the stud of your dreams could say it anyway he likes, youd give it up a few times, and bang he left town. always trying to have your cake and eat it too. Lol, appreciate the insight into what *I* like, respect in a man and respond to. But apparently you don't know me very well cause you are about as far off the mark as one can be ......sorry to burst your over-inflated bubble. BTW, it behooves me to mention again my boyfriend and I had sex (hot, crazy sex) the first night we met, it wasn't even a date! And I assure you he did NOT ask me if I wanted to ****...and if he had (said it as crudely and disrespectfully as that)....my opinion of HIM would have changed drastically. Feelings can change on a DIME, and something like that would definitely do it! Again, sorry to burst your bubble about that. :bunny: 1
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