jay1983 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Girl friends, but make sure you're more attractive than they are so you get the attention. 2
Author Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 Girl friends, but make sure you're more attractive than they are so you get the attention. Why not by myself?
RoseVille Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 IME, when out alone. But the majority of them will be skeezy. 1
Amalyn Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I've never been approached when alone. I've only ever been approached when hanging out with my girlfriends
TheBathWater Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Like most answers to questions of context, it depends. I generally feel more comfortable talking to women who are alone. The perfect scenario would be if you could hang out at a cafe where a girlfriend/wingwoman (not male friend) works so you have a social connection around you and also can spend time alone. Going out alone to a bar or a club is a bad idea, IMO.
Author Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 Where would you go? I don't know, where ever I feel like, but not a club. You didn't say why...
Author Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 Going out alone to a bar or a club is a bad idea, IMO. I know why I don't want to go to those places alone, but may I ask why you think this is a bad idea?
Author Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 OP: I would be careful going out alone. At least go somewhere that you know the people working there or something. Why? Popsicle
jay1983 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 I don't know, where ever I feel like, but not a club. You didn't say why... Just because sitting there at a bar or coffee shop or doing whatever alone is kinda boring and there that chance he may approach your friend instead. Anyway, peep game. Whether you go alone, or with a friends. When you're out and you see a guy you like, look at him. If he looks back, make eye contact, smile at him. That's how guys know to approach you.
RoseVille Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Why? Popsicle Safety, silly. Don't want you to meet Mr. Rohypnol. 2
Author Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 Just because sitting there at a bar or coffee shop or doing whatever alone is kinda boring Boring for who? Anyway, peep game. Whether you go alone, or with a friends. When you're out and you see a guy you like, look at him. If he looks back, make eye contact, smile at him. That's how guys know to approach you. So what you're saying is that it doesn't matter if I'm alone or with a friend?
Author Popsicle Posted August 2, 2015 Author Posted August 2, 2015 My friends are distracting actually to me. They want me to sit there all night and listen to them talk about their problems with their boyfriend/husband and how miserable they are. 2
jay1983 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Yeah I know what you mean, I have a friends that I don't talk to anyone cause of that. I guess go by yourself. I meant boring for you and that it doesn't matter whether or not you're alone. Just be careful. 1
jen1447 Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 Would I meet more men.... Going out by myself, or with a girl friend? By yourself, IME. Guys can be intimidated by packs of women or even pairs, but solo tells them two things - you can be approached w/out fear of a pack turning on them or nipping at their ankles to keep them away, and also that you've got balls enough to go hang out by yourself. 2
oberkeat Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 (edited) By yourself, IME. Guys can be intimidated by packs of women or even pairs, but solo tells them two things - you can be approached w/out fear of a pack turning on them or nipping at their ankles to keep them away, and also that you've got balls enough to go hang out by yourself. I absolutely agree. I will not approach a group of women. Pairs are less intimidating, but even then I might wait until her friend goes to the bathroom or something and then approach the girl I'm interested in. I find it incredible that some women travel in packs all the dang time, then complain that they're still single and guys don't approach them. Edited August 2, 2015 by oberkeat 1
oberkeat Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 When you're out and you see a guy you like, look at him. If he looks back, make eye contact, smile at him. That's how guys know to approach you. Good advice.
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