guild11 Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Hey guys, me and my GF having constant ego games, She obviously have more than me, we end up arguing about smallest things. For example I wake up and do all kind of stuff, she would send me a message like "I love you and miss you" Few minutes later I would reply and tell her I love her too, She gets upset and asks why I didnt messaged her 1st, why I had to wait for her to message/call me. Usually I'm the one who message her 1st and sometimes I want her to initiate 1st so it wont feel like a one side affection. We already talked about it I told her what I feel and that I dont play games, she says I'm right but week after we are having same conversation all over again. We both basically having power games, I want to feel wanted by her actions towards me and I guess she wants the same, where and how do we find the perfect spot ?
Got it Posted August 2, 2015 Posted August 2, 2015 How old are you guys? Sounds like a lot of pointless negative energy going into who contacts whom first. Either decide whether this is a hill you want to die on and give in if it isn't, find any way to compromise, or break up.
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