walkingonair Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 I honestly believe in a higher power.I don't believe in Religion because it's man made and a cult but i know without a doubt that there is a higher power that has some control over us and our lives. All the break ups and heart breaks we've gone through had to be gone through.Every single person that has come into our lives,had to.People come into our lives to teach us things.Heartbreaks make us stronger and help us get ready for our final real relationship.Everyone on this planet has gone through heartbreak regarding a relationship so you can't avoid heartbreak because it's ment to happen. If someone breaks up with us,it was ment to be.We aren't really in control of those things.Some people just have to be in our lives for a short period of time because throughout that short period of time we grow and change with the help of that person and when their job is done,we part ways. I don't know if any of guys believe in this,but i strongly do and experiences in my life are proof. Breakups are Blessings - amyfabulous
TaraMaiden2 Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Nope. Break-ups happen because of incompatibility, failure to communicate and egos wanting things their own way. When two egos pull in opposite directions in order to get the upper hand, something's got to give. Relationships fail because either one person doesn't love enough, or they love themselves more than the other person. It's that simple. I used to work for an organisation that counselled couples pre- and post nuptials. This organisation worked in collaboration with the RC Church. 99% of people who came for counselling never even considered a 'Higher Power' as being responsible for their marital problems. They fairly and squarely blamed each other. And one of them was usually right. 2
seasickpeeve Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 I want to believe this, I really hope it's true. But the I think of friends who met someone young, married and will prob be together forever and then I think of friends who are 'unlucky in love' and might end up single forever or at least long periods of time. Not everyone dies having had a fulfuling relationship and I suppose thats one reason It's hard letting go of my ex because I think he was my last chance at marriage, kids etc (I'm 30). I suppose the main point is to make sure you learn something from it and better yourself no matter what the future holds. We don't know what's around the corner until we turn 1
Author walkingonair Posted August 1, 2015 Author Posted August 1, 2015 Nope. Break-ups happen because of incompatibility, failure to communicate and egos wanting things their own way. When two egos pull in opposite directions in order to get the upper hand, something's got to give. Relationships fail because either one person doesn't love enough, or they love themselves more than the other person. It's that simple. I used to work for an organisation that counselled couples pre- and post nuptials. This organisation worked in collaboration with the RC Church. 99% of people who came for counselling never even considered a 'Higher Power' as being responsible for their marital problems. They fairly and squarely blamed each other. And one of them was usually right. Because no one is spiritual these days no one understands that everything created didn't come out of nowhere.We're proof that there's a higher power our bodies,cells,etc. I think people need to go to a real European psychic and that will be their proof.....
Gus Grimly Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Relationships fail because either one person doesn't love enough, or they love themselves more than the other person. It's that simple. . My Ex demonstrated both of those flaws. I sure can pick 'em.
Author walkingonair Posted August 1, 2015 Author Posted August 1, 2015 I want to believe this, I really hope it's true. But the I think of friends who met someone young, married and will prob be together forever and then I think of friends who are 'unlucky in love' and might end up single forever or at least long periods of time. Not everyone dies having had a fulfuling relationship and I suppose thats one reason It's hard letting go of my ex because I think he was my last chance at marriage, kids etc (I'm 30). I suppose the main point is to make sure you learn something from it and better yourself no matter what the future holds. We don't know what's around the corner until we turn Some of us aren't supposed to have kids.Most people who marry their h.s sweet heart get divorced much later on in life.Or throughout their relationship with their highschool sweet heart there were break ups in between or they got together later on in life.If everyone's lives were the same,this planet would be boring...
TaraMaiden2 Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Because no one is spiritual these days EXCUSE ME - ?! First of all, define Spiritual...! I am extremely spiritual. Others on this forum are too. You only have to look at the relevant forum to see that. The statement 'no-one is spiritual these days' is so flawed as to be risible and utterly ridiculous. Sorry, but you are so way off base there.... no one understands that everything created didn't come out of nowhere.We're proof that there's a higher power our bodies,cells,etc. I think people need to go to a real European psychic and that will be their proof..... Oh please! Spare me the Psychic deal! Really?! You're that gullible? And frankly, I don't see the connection...Psychics are for the most part about as 'unspiritual' as you can get. Charlatans, probably. Spiritual...? Not in my experience.... Proof? Proof of what, exactly?!
seasickpeeve Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Nope. Break-ups happen because of incompatibility, failure to communicate and egos wanting things their own way. When two egos pull in opposite directions in order to get the upper hand, something's got to give. Relationships fail because either one person doesn't love enough, or they love themselves more than the other person. It's that simple. I used to work for an organisation that counselled couples pre- and post nuptials. This organisation worked in collaboration with the RC Church. 99% of people who came for counselling never even considered a 'Higher Power' as being responsible for their marital problems. They fairly and squarely blamed each other. And one of them was usually right. And then you get those extra special messed up relationships where both leave blaming themselves because they were both the bad guys! It's abit chicken and egg sometimes. Some people are compatible with most people. Some people are not compatible with most people!
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