JamesThomas Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 So a week ago my ex, who I very much saw a future with, and I broke up. She was angry and cold and blocked me. Today she has unblocked me and started speaking to me asking how I'm doing and what my plans are for my life. I stayed calm and reserved because I know it can be a minefield when an ex contacts you again. To be honest the first few days were complete hell for me, bursting into tears, feeling utterly hopeless and alone, not sleeping or eating. When I did sleep I'd dream about her and wake up full of such sadness, feeling weak and like a shell. What does it mean? Why has she contacted me again? She mentioned that she had been reading over our chats on Whatsapp this morning which would suggest that she misses me. She spoke about how the breakup made her feel, told me that I had to understand how I made her feel, etc. She's pulling the "thanks for clearing that up for me.. I just wanted to know..." card and has yet to block me again. I'm just going to play it cool and not speak to her because I know how dangerous that can be. To be honest it's not, thankfully, as painful to see her online and talk to her as it used to be so it'll be easier to cope. What do you think I should do? Do you think she misses me and such? Thanks! P.s no I am not holding out hope that we'll get back together because that would be stupid and harmful to my mind and feelings.
SycamoreCircle Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Do you think it's right for you to be feeling like you're walking on eggshells around someone you care deeply for? My guess is no. Stay away from people like this. They don't have control.
Author JamesThomas Posted August 1, 2015 Author Posted August 1, 2015 Do you think it's right for you to be feeling like you're walking on eggshells around someone you care deeply for? My guess is no. Stay away from people like this. They don't have control. Oh my god now she wants to meet me to discuss things!!! What do I do???
SycamoreCircle Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 You know what to do. Stop playing helpless.
Author JamesThomas Posted August 1, 2015 Author Posted August 1, 2015 you know what to do. Stop playing helpless. yessir!!! Right away sir!!!
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