geminigirl590 Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 (edited) My bf is an honest guy I trust him but when he drinks sometimes he does things he normally wouldn't do. For instance, his friend wanted to smoke weed in his house and he said no you can't do that smoke it somewhere else. But once he was drunk he picked it up while is friend was passed out and was going to smoke it but he didn't have a lighter. He never smokes weed he does the same thing with cigarettes. He was telling me he always uses condoms unless he has been with the person for years but there was one instance where he had sex with his last gf without a condom while he was drunk (this happened before he met me). Whenever he is drunk he professes his love to me. If I'm not with him he always calls me when he gets back from partying but idk if I can trust him while he is drunk. He said he has never cheated on anyone. I'm concerned bc drinking lowers his inhibitions. Edited August 1, 2015 by geminigirl590
mrldii Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 Drinking typically lowers anyone's inhibitions. It also typically lowers one's ability to obtain and maintain an erection. Should you be worried that he might cheat if he's been drinking, because it will lower his inhibitions? Sure. But if you really love and care about him, you should probably be more worried that he'll drive while drunk and wrap himself around a telephone pole, resulting in his death or life-long disability, since [his] inhibitions get lowered while drinking. Either your trust him or you don't; either he's trustworthy or he's not; he either remains so while sober or while drunk, or he doesn't. If you're asking if it's OK for you to forbid him to go out drinking 'cuz he might do something stupid while drunk...nahhhhh, probably not. You're not his mother and he's not a child. Best of luck to you...
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