Author theblade Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 think me and u shud get 2gether jess!! u anywhere near sheffield! lol
whitewhale Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 Originally posted by Jess xx Something else on LS I notice is that everyone gets confused with NC as in they can implement it but cannot understand why the ex doesn't get it!? Have you spelt it out to her you do not want ANY contact with her again? Exactly! Isn't that the only real drawback of NC? The damn exes don't get it!
Author theblade Posted May 15, 2005 Author Posted May 15, 2005 so anyway...it continues.. I get a text from my ex. saying " hi how are you?, can i please have my hair straightners back please, i will pay you for them" I packed her hair straightners with all her stuff weeks ago. I think shes goin a bit mad or summat.
Jadey Posted May 15, 2005 Posted May 15, 2005 She is just useing excuse after excuse to see you or talk to you cos she wants some kind of reaction from you. Cos all shes getting at the moment is you not giing a damn, and it scares her. Continue to act like you dont give a damn! She wants you to beg for her back or soemthing. Dont do it Good Luck
Author theblade Posted May 18, 2005 Author Posted May 18, 2005 does anyone know if this is normal?? For the first 5-6 weeks i havent been that bothered. Well, i mean not as bad i think i would have felt. But Now, i cant stop thinking about her, i keep picking my phone up, writing a text then put it down. I dont get this. I feel like i just want her to see that i am still here.
Jess xx Posted May 18, 2005 Posted May 18, 2005 Don't do it my friend! You have been doing too well to go back there now. She wants a reaction from you...so you write to her and say what!? What would you gain from it? I think its hitting you now because although people say time heals at the same time you are starting to accept that she isn't in your life anymore and its natural but it can make you start to freak out a lil bit. Im going out loads (well being dragged out by friends) and meeting new people and am starting to realise that there are SO many other people out there apart from my ex and that it was definately his loss LOL, still think about the f**cker loads though and would like him to know that I am getting on with my life, but what would I achieve from it, nothing!
Author theblade Posted May 18, 2005 Author Posted May 18, 2005 thats just it jess.. Im not accepting that shes not in my life. I keep wanting her to be there. Its driving me mad.
Author theblade Posted June 6, 2005 Author Posted June 6, 2005 Ok so...heres a new one. This NC thingy is all fine and well. Dont contact them if you wanna heal quicker..which is all fine and it probably works. Today, im driving to work and i see my ex girlfriend with her new boyfriend in her car together. That, is a mega "break the NC rule" And it really really hurt me and im not back to square one. Ive never been like this. Ever. Its even made me sick. What do you do when you see ur ex with a new man that she left you for????? Answer that!
outdated Posted June 6, 2005 Posted June 6, 2005 Originally posted by theblade What do you do when you see ur ex with a new man that she left you for????? Hit something soft. Repeat. Drink pints. Walk around with a smile regardless of how you feel. Hit something soft. Repeat. Drink pints. Works like a f***ing charm. Resist the urge to call her. Resist the urge to track him down and kill him violently. It's not his fault. Try to have a good day.
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