guild11 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Hello, me and my GF had sex few days ago, Was good as always, we kept it on until the morning and I was surprised since she didnt got tired like most times. The day after we met at work, she kept staring at me and smiling, later she said that last night was like a dream, said that she never felt us so close and that she wants to spend another night like that. As for me, I love her but I didnt felt any special in that particular night I just enjoyed that she was with me and managed to keep it with my pace. Today I woke up and felt weird, I met her but had hard time being as usual, every hug and kiss was feelingless felt like I'm acting. Do I lose the feelings towards her ? If so how come my feelings changed over night ? Can depression cause this ?
Otter2569 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Sounds somewhat normal to me: Are you afraid because she wants more or expects that all the time or maybe she is more into you than you are into her?
spiderowl Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 I don't know why you are feeling the way you are but maybe you are getting worried that your feelings don't mirror those of your girlfriends. I wouldn't worry about that. You are different people with different bodies and minds and different hormones. There is no reason why you should exactly match each other at any particular point in the relationship. There is no 'should' about feelings; just carry on and see how things go. If you and your girlfriend are not having even similar feelings, it will become apparent to you. I would not let one occasion panic you into thinking you are not right for each other though.
bachdude Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Feelings can go up and down. Give it some time and they will more than likely return. Sometimes we don't know what we have until it is gone. We take relationships for granted. What I suggest is to focus on building a relationship with her. You have someone who is there for you. Count your blessings, man. Make it your aim to get to know her even better. See if you can get her to open up to you. Be there for her. Talk to her. Build some memories. Establish some traditions together. In other words, build something deeper so your relationship with her isn't based on superficial feelings. 1
Author guild11 Posted July 31, 2015 Author Posted July 31, 2015 Sounds somewhat normal to me: Are you afraid because she wants more or expects that all the time or maybe she is more into you than you are into her? We been together only 3 month, during this time I initiated a break up like 4 times, just because I was upset/angry at that moment, She simply would talk to me and tell me not to give up and eventually we stayed together It took me a while to realize how much I love her. I feel like I love her much more than she does, even tho she says otherwise. I kinda dont want for that to fade away.
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