Gaby Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Hi there, thanks in advance for your answer its a real simple qeustion what im about to ask you guys/girls. My ex broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago, have been NC for over 10 days now there is this really awesome party and i know for a fact she and her friends are going to be there and im going aswell with me friends. but im really not ready to see her having fun or grinding other guys or anything like that. I already paid for the ticket and am really looking forward to the party, but i cant bare watching her do that. So shall i go, and have myself some fun,or stay at home? Thanks.
Chi townD Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Do something else! You bought a ticket, sell it to someone else. Use that money to do something awesome! If it's an airline ticket, well those are usually non refundable, BUT! They're usually interchangeable. So, change your destination! GO SOMEWHERE ELSE AND HAVE FUN!!! And maybe your Ex will ask someone if you're there. They can say, "Oh he's at a party, just not this one. He's at a party in the BAHAMAS!!!!" 1
aloneinaz Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 If you're asking if it's a good idea, then you know it's not. I think you should avoid it and the hurt it could bring you. Now, if you go with a smoking hot date that is clinging to you, then HELL YA! Go rock that party and enjoy the ex getting pissed off!
Ariess10 Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 By all means don't go !!! There have been a lot of places I don't go to just because of this reason (not grinding ) just because I don't wanna see her yet , I'm not ready , so go do something else, something you enjoy and that YOU wanna do .. Trust me you'll be better off
Author Gaby Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 Thank you all for the reply, it makes sense not to go and do something else its just i was really looking forward for some fun finally in two weeks. Maby if i bring a hot date that will keep my minds of things wont it.
d0nnivain Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Who is the hot date you are thinking about bringing? It would be clear to many that you are not into the hot date but just using that person to make your EX jealous. Be careful with that tactic. 2
Author Gaby Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 Who is the hot date you are thinking about bringing? It would be clear to many that you are not into the hot date but just using that person to make your EX jealous. Be careful with that tactic. Yes you are right, ill better be doing something else, its still all too fresh for me, thanks for talking sense into me,
Mrin Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 OP's story in food: I love sushi. I totally love sushi. Like 3 or 4 times a week. I'd eat sushi every day if I could afford it. About two weeks ago I went on sushi bender - rolls, nigiri, hamachi, uni, maguro - you name it, I ate it. I am especially fond of this one fish - walu also known as escolar. I ate like a pound of it or something. It must have been bad because I got so sick. Like I have been sick for two weeks. Puking. And more - if you know what I mean. I can't eat anything. I had a fever for days. It has been awful I tell you, just awful. But this weekend I have a ticket to go to an all you can eat sushi party. I really want to go because I bought the ticket. But I'm afraid I'd just die if I smelled fish right now. Think I should go? 1
Author Gaby Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 OP's story in food: I love sushi. I totally love sushi. Like 3 or 4 times a week. I'd eat sushi every day if I could afford it. About two weeks ago I went on sushi bender - rolls, nigiri, hamachi, uni, maguro - you name it, I ate it. I am especially fond of this one fish - walu also known as escolar. I ate like a pound of it or something. It must have been bad because I got so sick. Like I have been sick for two weeks. Puking. And more - if you know what I mean. I can't eat anything. I had a fever for days. It has been awful I tell you, just awful. But this weekend I have a ticket to go to an all you can eat sushi party. I really want to go because I bought the ticket. But I'm afraid I'd just die if I smelled fish right now. Think I should go? I lol'd so hard this makes so much sense :laugh:
Mrin Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 I lol'd so hard this makes so much sense :laugh: My pleasure. Also for the record - if you ever run across walu or escolar, definitely get it but only in small quantities. It has a waxy fat in it (that makes it taste freaking incredible) that humans can't digest. In small quantities it isn't a big deal. Have fun dude. And my suggestion on what to do - do something that you've never done before. From a brain perspective that's the best medicine for a breakup. Brains love to learn about new stuff and build new synaptic connections. When a brain is building new synaptic connections it can't fire old ones as much. You know, the ones about your ex. So ya, go do something new. You'll feel better for it. 1
mightycpa Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Who is the hot date you are thinking about bringing? It would be clear to many that you are not into the hot date but just using that person to make your EX jealous. Be careful with that tactic. So true. Take that hot date somewhere else. It might make you feel good for a little while.
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