Arda199 Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 i'm going to make this as short as i can My friend introduced me to this girl 8 months ago, we've been texting and hanging out for a while and this girl seemed into me and i've been into her also, so after a while we made it official being bf and gf..etc we had a really good thing going until we broke up because i found her flirting with the other dude and when i asked her about it she said 'I thought we're over' i got really frustrated and i told her'Fine, if this is what you want then you got it' she freaked out and said i love you and stuff i didn't respond, I went 1 month NC then i texted her first to see how is she doing ( i was bored i didn't text her because i missed her) long story short we promised that we will work things out this time and no more games and stuff, we continued doing this for over 3 months and things been pretty sweet. After that we got into an argument because she lied to me about something(not the first time) and then she got angry for me being angry at her for the something she did wrong WTF!!! and started to say things like 'Why should i be with someone like you? if you don't want me then just say it' i replied 'I want you more than anything but i don't understand why you have to lie to me most of the time?' she told me to leave her alone so i did, two days after NC she texted me saying she had enough of it and she don't want to be with me or talk to me anymore. I didn't beg her to stay or anything i just told her that she didn't give me the chance to explain myself. She didn't seem to care and told me goodbye. its been 6 weeks of NC and i haven't heard anything from her i really don't know what to do, most of people advise me to keep the NC going and she will contact me later. i just want to know if anyone got dumped and dumper contacted them :\ *Sorry for my bad English it's not my first lang*
Author Arda199 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 Also in week 4 of NC i was speaking to her friend and told me that my Ex been talking about me and how i didn't treat her right and how i cheat on her (none of this is true) i just don't understand why would she tell her friends something isn't true ? I might add that her best friend kept asking me if i'm seeing someone in the moment ( this girl has a BF)
mightycpa Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 RELATIONSHIP DRAMA is this girl's first language. Better find another girl to fall in love with. Fast.
Chi townD Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Also in week 4 of NC i was speaking to her friend and told me that my Ex been talking about me and how i didn't treat her right and how i cheat on her (none of this is true) i just don't understand why would she tell her friends something isn't true ? I might add that her best friend kept asking me if i'm seeing someone in the moment ( this girl has a BF) She has to demonize you in her head to justify the reason why she ended it. She has to tell herself that you are an awful person and treated her badly so she wouldn't feel guilty anymore.
Author Arda199 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 RELATIONSHIP DRAMA is this girl's first language. Better find another girl to fall in love with. Fast. One of her friends is into me and my ex used to get jealous of her whenever i bring her on topic, this girl is super hot and sweet also been texting me and dropping hints that she's into me. I'm also into her but i'm afraid it just going to rebound and i end up hurting her
Author Arda199 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 She has to demonize you in her head to justify the reason why she ended it. She has to tell herself that you are an awful person and treated her badly so she wouldn't feel guilty anymore. Such a pathetic way. I've been treating her like a princess and do whatever that satisfies her and this is her way of paying me back? Just shows you how much she cared about me
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 You learn more about someone at the end of a relationship than at the beginning. OP, count your blessings and chalk it up to a lesson in knowing what you really want out of a relationship; honesty. Good luck.
Author Arda199 Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 You learn more about someone at the end of a relationship than at the beginning. OP, count your blessings and chalk it up to a lesson in knowing what you really want out of a relationship; honesty. Good luck. Tbh i don't want her anymore i just want her to regret it because i've been putting a lot in this relationship to work then suddenly BANG "i don't want you anymore"
Author Arda199 Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 so what should i do now ? i wonder if she will ever regret her decision
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