Jump to content

I found my current boyfriend on CL


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

POF was terrible.

OKC got only got me dates.

CL got me a boyfriend.

It is so weird.LOL

Posted
POF was terrible.

OKC got only got me dates.

CL got me a boyfriend.

It is so weird.LOL

 

How long has he been your boyfriend? You won't know for a while whether CL delivered something worth having either . . .

  • Author
Posted
How long has he been your boyfriend? You won't know for a while whether CL delivered something worth having either . . .

It has been a month.

Posted

Was he in the "GIGS Available" section? Better watch out for the GIGS! :laugh:

Posted
What is CL?

 

 

"Craigslist"

Posted
It has been a month.

 

A month is pretty quick to be calling a man your boyfriend . . . be careful here. If you haven't had that conversation, you may be in for a surprise. Make sure the two of you are on the same page in terms of dating goals for yourselves in general. Is he looking for a long term relationship or just casual? What do you want for yourself? You may not be sure it's with each other yet, but at least you are dating for that purpose.

 

And, a guy can say he's dating for a relationship because he just knows that's what girls usually want. So, you need to observe how he dates you. Schedules proper dates, not last minute or cancel last minute, keeps in touch between dates with quality communication -- not overly sexual in nature. And, don't sleep with them until you are comfortable about them. If you do sleep with a man early in the dating scenario, you should expect it to be a one-night stand and accept that. If, however, he keeps in touch with you and sees you afterward, it's a good sign. And, I don't mean you don't hear from him for a week or so and then he comes back either. He stays in touch the next day or maybe the day after, but longer than that, I'd move on.

 

Don't count your chickens before they are hatched :)

  • Like 1
Posted

If CraigsList worked for you that's great. It may not be the best place for others. I met my husband in a bar which many will tell you is a terrible place to meet a quality partner. Different strokes . . .

Posted
"Craigslist"

 

As a sane person I've blocked out craigslist so far out that I never even thought that's what the OP meant.

  • Like 2
Posted
"Craigslist"

 

Craigslist works better than OKC and POF??

Woah...

  • Like 1
  • Author
Posted
Craigslist works better than OKC and POF??

Woah...

For me LOL

×
×
  • Create New...