serial muse Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 It happened to me once; we had just broken up and I had mentioned this place while we were dating, and lo and behold he came here and figured out who I was (I was posting a lot about the breakup at the time). That was my fault; I was indiscreet, and perhaps I even wanted him to read what I had written. I'm not sure, but it no longer matters. I changed usernames at the time though. That was many many years ago now. My husband knows I post here but he's only mildly interested. From time to time I tell him the Loveshack news. I don't think he's ever come here to snoop, but I'd cheerfully tell him my username if he wanted to read my posts. I haven't posted anything I wouldn't want him to read.
Truthstar Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 My boyfriend and I both post here and see each others' posts, but that's only because we MET here, so that's a different beast We both know that we can post freely without any backlash or judgment. It's not an issue Uh-oooh! your relationship is doomed!
MoreAmore Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 I told my boyfriend about this place the first time I posted here. He'd have no trouble identifying who I am, if not by style of writing alone then by details I have posted. I don't think he's interested in reading any of it. I already tell him everything that pops into my mind; I doubt he feels compelled to seek it out elsewhere. He's probably happy for the momentary escapes when we are not actively communicating.
autumnnight Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 You have no real-life contact with him but you believe he's stalking you? Wow. This is one notch above the people who think celebrities are communicating with them through subliminal signals. Sadly, there are people who have nothing better to do than stalking people they've never met. It's sad, but it happens. I do admit I WISH....well, never mind.
Haydn Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 GF knows i am here...... Mum vets my racier posts...... 5
jen1447 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 The bottom line with this stuff is that you don't want the wrong person looking for you online, but fortunately about 95.5% of ppl aren't the wrong person, eg have the capability to actually find meaningful things out. The other ones won't find much unless you put foolish info out there sufficient to easily follow your trail. But beware that 0.5%. 1
kilgore Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 My boyfriend and I both post here and see each others' posts, but that's only because we MET here, so that's a different beast We both know that we can post freely without any backlash or judgment. It's not an issue Wow. Amazing. Do you find yourself censoring yourself more now?
The Poster Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 My boyfriend and I both post here and see each others' posts, but that's only because we MET here This is incredible to me. How did that happen? Sounds like a movie.
Phoe Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Wow. Amazing. Do you find yourself censoring yourself more now? Nope. I've always been fairly, well... uninhibited with some of the things I post, and he still likes me despite all of that. I still think he's crazy for it This is incredible to me. How did that happen? Sounds like a movie. Heh, fairly straightforward honestly. Over time we talked on these forums, grew to like each other, and decided to meet. It was a gradual process. But! We are not the only "met on loveshack" couple, I can think of a few other happy members 2
kilgore Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Nope. I've always been fairly, well... uninhibited with some of the things I post, and he still likes me despite all of that. I still think he's crazy for it Heh, fairly straightforward honestly. Over time we talked on these forums, grew to like each other, and decided to meet. It was a gradual process. But! We are not the only "met on loveshack" couple, I can think of a few other happy members I guess you are pretty frank on here, judging from your posts I have read. But what's the point in coming here otherwise.
Gloria25 Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Nope. I've always been fairly, well... uninhibited with some of the things I post, and he still likes me despite all of that. I still think he's crazy for it Heh, fairly straightforward honestly. Over time we talked on these forums, grew to like each other, and decided to meet. It was a gradual process. But! We are not the only "met on loveshack" couple, I can think of a few other happy members ***pfft*** Count me amongst the "unhappy" members who met on LS
kilgore Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 I'm curious how he 'found' you - do you mean just through seeing LS on your computer/phone/device, or did he 'look' for you on the interwebs? I'd be less concerned about being found on the interwebs than by having someone close to me sneaking around out in the virtual bushes trying to check up on my web habits. My people know I'm on here lol, seems silly to hide it. I understand about possibly wanting it as a private thing but meh, doesn't bother me at all, and bc of that I don't think anyone finds my activity here particularly titillating. It's just "that forum Jen posts on," not "Jen's secret internet skank hole." Your posts are actually really funny and insightful
Radu Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 Nope. I've always been fairly, well... uninhibited with some of the things I post, and he still likes me despite all of that. I still think he's crazy for it Heh, fairly straightforward honestly. Over time we talked on these forums, grew to like each other, and decided to meet. It was a gradual process. But! We are not the only "met on loveshack" couple, I can think of a few other happy members Yeah, there was that US guy who works on 'soup' plantation of all things ... what a loser !!! But i think he quit.
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