madde Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 Hello everyone! 2 weeks ago I was dumped by my boyfriend for six months. It came out of nothing. We met on work when I was substituting one of our collegues. We were only chatting this day, because he was very interesting personality, but I then not realised that he will show up after 4 days at my office with rose and then he was chasing me for about 2 weeks before asked me to date. Why I was refusing? Because I am 28 and he was then 22. I was very reserved and didn't promise him anything for about month and half but he was so mature and decided to give him a chance. Eveything was fine until the end of June. Last time we were together it was at my flat and we were watching film, he was so sweet, in the morning I went to work and he returned home. And then - silence for 5 days. I knew - it was hard time for him at work and university, so I didn't worry at first. And then he refused to meet with me, he then went on vacation abroad, we changed some messages during this time and then he returned home and it was his birthday. He didn't ask me although he promised early to take me to his home and introduce to parents. And then I asked him directly : am I your girlfriend or not? And then he said to me : that he didn't have a time for us and he don't even want to save this relationship. I was shocked - I can't understand how feelings can change that fast? I said him that I respect his decision although I will miss him much. We had to work two days together after that - situation wasn't simple but somehow we managed it- he friendly asked me questions about my holidays, vacation and how I am doing, I was trying to keep contact low as possible to not burst in tears. After that full NC and he didn't send me anything on this 10 days. I don't feel any anger to him, trying to understand him, too. Today it is 2 weeks after breakup - and I realise I miss him very much But I know that he possibly doesn't remember me... I know there will be great future but right now every morning I have to write to me everything I will do not to give up. 1
Gaby Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 Its always the hardest the first few weeks, i myself am 10 days NC and the BU was 10 days ago so im am just like you feeling really alone and sad. We will all have good days, and some bad days aswell its part of this crazy rollercoster we are currently in it. Somedays you will cry and feel sad and all alone, but things will have to be worse before they get better. its hard but i can promise you this that the day will come when we will look into our ex's and feel nothing. When, i dont know, but the day will come Stay NC, heal, move on. its the best way. 1
Lorenza Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 I feel your pain Madde. I'm in the exact same position as you, first 2 weeks after a breakup, wondering how could it all happen so sudden and where did his feelings go. Just know that at the exact same moment someone in the world also misses someone and is in pain (even though mine was an idiot, but i still loved him). We will manage through this, somehow 2
titipornstar Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 im in month 5 , i thought i was ok last 2 months and now i feel worse than ever... its mental torcher 1
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