danmillar Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 I went to a festival this weekend, and fortunately crowds were quite reasonable. There was plenty of seating and lines were short. There was some great cuisine at the food stands and I partook on multiple occasions. There was communal seating with lots of empty space. Each time I sat, I was quickly approached by one or several women who either sat right next to me or directly across from me. When they sat across from me, they just stared at me and said nothing. Rather awkward I would say. Forcing me to initiate conversation with them. Or, they would sit directly next to me, as if they were part of my party (which they would be shortly). Again, no conversation, essentially forcing me to start up a conversation. I did have a woman in line behind me strike up a conversation, however. The bottom line is that women will definitely take the initiative to meet a man they find appealing, so the key is to get yourself out there and have fun! I had a great time overall, and am looking forward to more festivals!
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 I went to a festival this weekend, and fortunately crowds were quite reasonable. There was plenty of seating and lines were short. There was some great cuisine at the food stands and I partook on multiple occasions. There was communal seating with lots of empty space. Each time I sat, I was quickly approached by one or several women who either sat right next to me or directly across from me. When they sat across from me, they just stared at me and said nothing. Rather awkward I would say. Forcing me to initiate conversation with them. Or, they would sit directly next to me, as if they were part of my party (which they would be shortly). Again, no conversation, essentially forcing me to start up a conversation. I did have a woman in line behind me strike up a conversation, however. The bottom line is that women will definitely take the initiative to meet a man they find appealing, so the key is to get yourself out there and have fun! I had a great time overall, and am looking forward to more festivals! Still it's not best to hold your breath for that if you are a guy, but glad to hear some women do
ThisisIt606 Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 Maybe they were simply just sitting down at the communal table to eat and not so much lookin g for a romantic connection. We're they with friends or alone? 3
Keenly Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 I have a hard time imagining a girl sitting down and staring at you. I think they just wanted some place to sit. But hey, I wasn't there. 6
highseas Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 I think one way or the other it turned out well for the OP. Either those women were interested and the OP helped them by opening them up. Or those women were just sitting around and watching people casually and OP thought they were interested and got motivated to approach them with confidence (since he thought they were interested).
elaine567 Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 Just wanted to sit down, surely not? Didn't you know? Every woman and I mean every woman is interested in Dan, Dan is the man. 4
mrldii Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 Just wanted to sit down, surely not? Didn't you know? Every woman and I mean every woman is interested in Dan, Dan is the man. Sometimes, when I sit at a table with a lone man already sitting at it, I'm just interested in finding a space in the shade. I'm going to have to rethink why I'm really doing the things I'm doing and subconsciously making the choices I'm making. 4
GravityMan Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 What the hell, OP. A woman sitting down at the communal table does not mean that she's approaching you or interested in you. They probably just wanted a place to sit. The "staring at you" bit doesn't mean anything, either. Some people like to look at other people nearby, news at 11. You are reading way too much into the whole thing. Quit overthinking.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 What the hell, OP. A woman sitting down at the communal table does not mean that she's approaching you or interested in you. They probably just wanted a place to sit. The "staring at you" bit doesn't mean anything, either. Some people like to look at other people nearby, news at 11. You are reading way too much into the whole thing. Quit overthinking. That could be it
Author danmillar Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 Had another (young) woman approach me today. Pretty Asian gal riding a bike waved and smiled hi to me as I was out walking. A couple of stunning hot young blonde gals approached me at a farmer's market last week, too.
Author danmillar Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 That's why Latin women call me "Papi Chulo." Just wanted to sit down, surely not? Didn't you know? Every woman and I mean every woman is interested in Dan, Dan is the man.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Had another (young) woman approach me today. Pretty Asian gal riding a bike waved and smiled hi to me as I was out walking. A couple of stunning hot young blonde gals approached me at a farmer's market last week, too. How did the hot blonde women approach? Like what did they say?
smackie9 Posted July 29, 2015 Posted July 29, 2015 Had another (young) woman approach me today. Pretty Asian gal riding a bike waved and smiled hi to me as I was out walking. A couple of stunning hot young blonde gals approached me at a farmer's market last week, too. Good god and you did what? Nothing I assume....didn't even ask for a number?
Author danmillar Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 Good god and you did what? Nothing I assume....didn't even ask for a number? They were of a certain age, shall we say. I am approached by gals of all ages.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 They were of a certain age, shall we say. I am approached by gals of all ages. Sounds perplexing
Author danmillar Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 Sounds perplexing Dude, they were young. I won't explain any more beyond that. Figure it out.
Author danmillar Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 So, four more women approached me tonight. Two of them were married gals. For the first gal, I saw her ring early on, and she dropped a "we" midway through anyway. We had a fun, great talk. She was at ease because she's married. I was at ease because she was married, so no "pressure." She bought me a drink, which took me by surprise. I think it also took the bar hostess by surprise as well, judging by her expression. I got their contact info, but I'm obviously not going to pursue either one in a personal/romantic sense. --- Two more women approached me at a bar I went to later on with friends. Nice gals, but I wasn't really interested.
yxalitis Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Precisely what is the point of this thread? Dan, you have a serious ego issue, but also are very insecure as you feel the need to come here and basically tell a bunch of Internet strangers that attractive woman find you attractive... Err...OK
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 So, four more women approached me tonight. Two of them were married gals. For the first gal, I saw her ring early on, and she dropped a "we" midway through anyway. We had a fun, great talk. She was at ease because she's married. I was at ease because she was married, so no "pressure." She bought me a drink, which took me by surprise. I think it also took the bar hostess by surprise as well, judging by her expression. I got their contact info, but I'm obviously not going to pursue either one in a personal/romantic sense. --- Two more women approached me at a bar I went to later on with friends. Nice gals, but I wasn't really interested. some of this sounds very hard to believe
Author danmillar Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 some of this sounds very hard to believe The bar hostess was pretty surprised. Not quite shocked, but close. Her jaw dropped and she was eyeing us both back and forth. She probably glimpsed the ring, too. Actually I was pretty surprised she bought me a drink. I felt tempted to pay for both of us, but I've tried paying before when a woman offers to pay and it doesn't turn out well.
Author danmillar Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 Precisely what is the point of this thread? Dan, you have a serious ego issue, but also are very insecure as you feel the need to come here and basically tell a bunch of Internet strangers that attractive woman find you attractive... Err...OK It serves as a reminder for me to be pro-active. Even when women approach, I want to be assertive still and lead the interaction where I want it to go. When you get approached a lot, you can expect the women to do a lot: initiate conversation, touching, paying, etc. I want to stay sharp and assertive, hence a reminder that even women who approach can still be a bit shy.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 The bar hostess was pretty surprised. Not quite shocked, but close. Her jaw dropped and she was eyeing us both back and forth. She probably glimpsed the ring, too. Actually I was pretty surprised she bought me a drink. I felt tempted to pay for both of us, but I've tried paying before when a woman offers to pay and it doesn't turn out well. When I say hard to believe I mean it's because girls usually never approach guys
WomenWubber Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Good to hear some successful stories. Keep 'em coming!
PrettyEmily77 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 So well over 10 ladies approached you just because in less than a week, yet you're still single? You're a very choosy boy, Dan... Can't make out the exact reason why you are posting all these stories about pretty ladies lusting over you, but they are entertaining all the same . For future reference tho, a woman who approaches a guy she really likes is never shy. 2
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