shevy0404 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 Hello! I would like to ask the public on their opinion regarding double standards in a relationship...this revolves in particular around an issue with Instagram...so my boyfriend and I both have Instagram...it bothers me he follows multiple pornstars and women who post photos of crotch shots and almost nude pics which are very unclassy...It bothers me to see that and I get guys look at that, but he refuses to respect the fact that it bothers me and follows them anyway...but what I find very hypocritical is if I post a photo of myself that shows a bit of cleavage, he rages... I don't post anything that is unclassy or screaming for attention...just a pic of me dressed up and yet, that bothers him! How is it fair he can not respect what bothers me and ogle these women, but I post a pic with a bit of cleavage and he calls me a whore?? I would appreciate any input on this topic...thank you!
Jeffery1981 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 Honestly from a man's perspective, I agree that it's not ok for him to not respect what bothers you in your relationship given that you expressed this to him. As for you posting pics of cleavage, he's definitly a total hypocrite to say you can't do that meanwhile he stares at other girls posting more revealing photos. I think if he was secure with himself, he would be proud of how you look as long as they are classy photos. If he can't respect what bothers you, then what bothers him doesn't matter. Tell him to use common sense!
Eggplant Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 If he called you a whore, you have to break up with him, end of story. No choice. 5
Arieswoman Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 shevy0404 it bothers me he follows multiple pornstars and women who post photos of crotch shots and almost nude pics which are very unclassy... but he refuses to respect the fact that it bothers me and follows them anyway So why are you with this jerk who disrespects your feeling about this?
Author shevy0404 Posted July 27, 2015 Author Posted July 27, 2015 Yes, you guys are all right about these things. He thinks it's "no big deal" to follow these girls and says it shouldn't bother me. It hurts me he would disrespect my feelings like that. It's all being put into perspective for me that I'm foolish for putting up with this. I just want to get through to him so he can understand where I'm coming from. He thinks I'm crazy and jealous that it bothers me that he looks at that...everyone is different and some people it may bother, others maybe not...I just don't think it's right he can do that but tell me my photos are inappropriate when they really are not at all
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