cherie88 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 I'm in complete shock. I met this guy at a restaurant bar and he seemed perfect. Went out walked by the lake took me out and then we had deep intimate sex felt so close we were sharing secrets everything. I felt such a deep connection, I warned him before sex how I felt and what my expectations were he agreed and assured me I had nothing to worry about. I knew he wasn't a texting person so I gave him his space and asked him when the next tune I could see him, he kind of gave me a let me fit you into my schedule kind of attitude and told me he would prefer mornings , I respected his effort to see me so I decided to push for Sunday morninf(at this point it had been a week seeing him and I was willing to compromise my schedule) all of a sudden I don't hear from him for a day and a half assuming plans are a no go.. Yet he post snap chats and Instagram pictures of himself enjoying a spa at his own condo/resort..I felt really disregarded and unimportant the fact that he didn't even bother to reply knowing I would see that. I felt like the drive to see me completely vanished... Feeling insulted and trying to protect my ego I texted him "lol" as in me being speechless-in a sarcastic manner ... This stings like a bitch and he still hasn't replied. I don't know why I find myself in situations like this all the time. I'm currently feeling down and completely stupid and even desperate
Popsicle Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 1 date + sex does not make a deep intimate relationship. That takes time. It takes time to build an emotional connection and intimacy. You simply have to wait and see if he desires to know you better.
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