dsprimal Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 (edited) Hey everyone, Ok here me out. this is an extremely far fetched thought...but just hear me out. So this dates back to 2008/2009 during my college years. I was friends with this guy back from high school (but what i'm talking about happened years after, hence the college years stated earlier) and his younger sister was attracted to me. She invited me out to a new years eve party and I choked and made some lame excuse not to go cause i was a huge wimp and didn't want to talk to my friends younger sister. anyways. me and her kept in touch through facebook from time to time and would tag each other in random posts or pictures on instagram etc. So over the years from 2009 (call me a creep all you want, we all do it!) i've noticed that she's gone through like 3 boyfriends since then from all the pictures she posts on facebook and from what I hear from friends of friends etc. so now she's currently with a new bf. Now....present time. she posted happy bday on my wall and I said thanks (insert name) witha smiley face and she liked it right after. the fact that we NEVER hungout in person EVER. but yet she's still reaching out for a happy bday post must say something right? cause get me if i'm wrong. if you are very distant with someone, you usually fizzle off the map and not even say a happy bday to someone who you havent seen or spoken to in ages (older people reading this must agree with what i'm saying to an extent). right? I was thinking of reaching out and seeing what happens. I'm a hopeless romantic and always thought that in her mind, I was the guy that she had the hots for but never got the chance with. So if me and her are on the same thought of the "what if's" even YEARS later, how awesome would that be if we actually did kick things off now? She's super cute and right up my alley btw. she's gotten even hotter now. I know she has a bf etc etc. but besides that, any thoughts? Edited July 27, 2015 by dsprimal
Jame22 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 Hey everyone, Ok here me out. this is an extremely far fetched thought...but just hear me out. So this dates back to 2008/2009 during my college years. I was friends with this guy back from high school (but what i'm talking about happened years after, hence the college years stated earlier) and his younger sister was attracted to me. She invited me out to a new years eve party and I choked and made some lame excuse not to go cause i was a huge wimp and didn't want to talk to my friends younger sister. anyways. me and her kept in touch through facebook from time to time and would tag each other in random posts or pictures on instagram etc. So over the years from 2009 (call me a creep all you want, we all do it!) i've noticed that she's gone through like 3 boyfriends since then from all the pictures she posts on facebook and from what I hear from friends of friends etc. so now she's currently with a new bf. Now....present time. she posted happy bday on my wall and I said thanks (insert name) witha smiley face and she liked it right after. the fact that we NEVER hungout in person EVER. but yet she's still reaching out for a happy bday post must say something right? cause get me if i'm wrong. if you are very distant with someone, you usually fizzle off the map and not even say a happy bday to someone who you havent seen or spoken to in ages (older people reading this must agree with what i'm saying to an extent). right? I was thinking of reaching out and seeing what happens. I'm a hopeless romantic and always thought that in her mind, I was the guy that she had the hots for but never got the chance with. So if me and her are on the same thought of the "what if's" even YEARS later, how awesome would that be if we actually did kick things off now? She's super cute and right up my alley btw. she's gotten even hotter now. I know she has a bf etc etc. but besides that, any thoughts? You're overthinking everything. It's pretty obvious that she wants to get to know you in person. Just ask her out before she goes away
danmillar Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 Women are ready when they're ready. Throughout high school, I had the toughest time picking up on 'signs of interest.' It's embarrassing to relate how long it took me to figure things out. These girls would tease me in some minor way, and I would get extremely upset and wind up making them cry. Or, they would just stop because I couldn't figure out the purpose of their teasing. In college, I got a little better but would get confused when girls would wait a year or two or a semester to show their interest. It hurt my pride a little, even back then.
mrs rubble Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 While she has a boyfriend leave her be. You don't want to caught in a bad spot. If she becomes single again- then go for it, you don't get unless you ask.
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