Girlie12 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 I dated a guy for a while a couple of months ago. He treated me very respectfully but we broke up because he decided to move to another state to start a new life and job. he did not even mention trying to make it work so I did not want to sound desperate. I broke it off eventually because the thought that we could grow closer and then be done suddenly with very little notice, it was a constant thought in my head so that is what I decided versus having a monogamous casual relationship. After we broke up, I went back on tinder. He found out from one of his friends and he made a comment about it. I told him I had to move on and that he didn't try hard enough to keep me. Over the next few weeks we did random texts about our lives. he finally told me he accepted a job and when I asked if he wanted to hang out before he left to let me know but he never did. so after a while I realized that I needed closure so I de friended him off of facebook. After not hearing from him, randomly I got a friend request from him. I decided to accept it but after not hearing from him I de friended him again. Because he could see what was going on in my life and not texting me was not fair for me. after a week or two later, he friend requested me AGAIN for the second time! It was pending for about a week and then I deleted the request. any idea what is going on?
madjac74 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 He either wants to keep tabs on you or he is so dim that he just sees your name in "suggested friends" and keeps clicking on it. Facebook is dumb like that
yxalitis Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 He either wants to keep tabs on you or he is so dim that he just sees your name in "suggested friends" and keeps clicking on it. Facebook users are dumb like that FTFY stupid 10 letters min
aloneinaz Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 I dated a guy for a while a couple of months ago. He treated me very respectfully but we broke up because he decided to move to another state to start a new life and job. he did not even mention trying to make it work so I did not want to sound desperate. I broke it off eventually because the thought that we could grow closer and then be done suddenly with very little notice, it was a constant thought in my head so that is what I decided versus having a monogamous casual relationship. After we broke up, I went back on tinder. He found out from one of his friends and he made a comment about it. I told him I had to move on and that he didn't try hard enough to keep me. Over the next few weeks we did random texts about our lives. he finally told me he accepted a job and when I asked if he wanted to hang out before he left to let me know but he never did. so after a while I realized that I needed closure so I de friended him off of facebook. After not hearing from him, randomly I got a friend request from him. I decided to accept it but after not hearing from him I de friended him again. Because he could see what was going on in my life and not texting me was not fair for me. after a week or two later, he friend requested me AGAIN for the second time! It was pending for about a week and then I deleted the request. any idea what is going on? There could be a myriad of reasons for this behavior from him. He's bored and is playing stupid games. He wants to stay connected for some reason. Who knows.. The important thing is you pulled the plug on it for what sounds like solid reasons. I think you should simply stay NC with this guy and BLOCK him on FB so you won't have to deal with his BS on there. Focus on you moving forward to a new guy that brings a fresh start and perspective in your life. Wasting time thinking about this ex is fruitless.
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