girlfriend left me for another guy and sent me photos day after breakup

[mano1982]

I was reading some of these posts and thought maybe someone out there can help me get through this. Basically ive been with the girl for almost two years. I loved her very much. Last summer i took all the money I had saved up and went to Greece to spend a month with her. in the winter she lives here in the States and in the summer she visits her father and brother in Greece. she met me at the airport madly in love was so happy to see me I took her to visit my family in a different part of that country. she was cutting my food in front of them hugging me kissing me putting on quite the show. then I went with her 13 hours away to her part where her family is from. one thing I want to add is she thought it was appropriate that I escorted her there and that she be seen with me escorting her to her area. on the trip there she wss complaining a little bit that that I wasn't getting up early enough in the first couple days we were thereand I was spending too much time with my family without her present. meaning at night I would walk her to my house wait for her to fall asleep and then I would go spend an hour with them. I hadn't seen them in years. anyways she took me to her area 13 hours away and broke up with me as soon as we got there. honestly I couldn't see straight I'll never forget that feeling. I picked up my pieces went back to my area and spent the last two weeks of my summer crying myself to sleep not leaving the house or visiting anybody. I came back to the States she was on the flight with me and she came and found me and was being very sweet which was strange considering how heartless she had just been. months later she bumped into me somewhere started crying and telling me that she needed me and missed me so against my better judgement or I guess 1 day I woke up and we were back together. the next 8 months we spent everyday together she told me how much she loved me we had good moments but I noticed she would complain whenever I would see a friend or bring a friend out with us. even though I would see her everyday she seemed to always bring up that I wasn't giving her enough attention.

now let's get through this summer a month ago I dropped her off at the airport she was in tears she didn't want to leave me. kissing me hugging me I love you all that stuff. I couldn't see straight when I was leaving at the airport because of how sad I was that I would have to spend the next two months without her. kind of ironic a trooper who was doing security there put his hand on my shoulder and told me she would be back not to worry. even reading this right now it's extremely difficult. anyways she left early this summer so she could come back August 1st and we could go on vacation here together. the first month was great she miss me everyday we talked ..the I love you's everything. then I noticed a complaint that I wasn't sending her goodnight messages when I went home at night even though every night until she fell asleep I stayed on the phone with her and spoke to her but she wanted me to send these messages when I got home a few hours later. then she told me she was getting off her medication that the doctor put her on because she didn't think she needed it. I told her to wait till she got back and do it the right way under the doctor's supervision. then her friends came for a week. I noticed a slight change and she told me she was just going through something and preoccupied and a little depressed getting off the meds. I noticed she was being tagged in posts with the strange guy who I had never heard of before but they were all together with her friends so I assumed it was a mutual friend and he was just part of the group. she kept complaining about the goodnight messages for 3 days four days. then I found out from her travel agent that she wasn't coming back till Septembr. I confronted her it was the day before my birthday and a week before my bar exam to become an attorney. she admitted it and claimed her mother booked the tickets and she had no idea. I know her mother she wanted her to come back sooner than later so I know I had a feeling she wasn't telling me the whole story. I became really hurt because I realize that our vacation plans we're gone I realize that she wasn't coming back anytime soon and I had a feeling that there was something else going on. I hung up on her give myself a day to cool off and then called her the next day. she was furious and very vicious at how I could have hung up on her. the following day which was my birthday I get a message from her an email with the picture of the guy I was questioning. she said it was an accident and she was sending it to him. I know it was an accident she had to open up my email attach it and send it she wanted me to know that she was spending time with him. this is the same girl who didn't want me to have a female tutor to help me for my exam because she thought it was inappropriate, which i oblidged. The following day I kept getting messages from her very angry and vicious telling me that my plan backfired and if I thought by hanging up on her she would chase me I had another thing coming. I was just really heart and realize that our summer plans were gone so I became upset I didn't talk to her for a day she was making it seem like I did something horrible. the following day this guy started posting pictures of the two of them tagging her arm in arm kissing hugging holding each other. words couldn't describe the shock that I experienced the heartache the pain was unbelievable and still is. I messaged her friends and ask them how she could do that what was going on what happened. she sent me a message saying that he's giving her things I could never give her and she was happy with him. he saw her vulnerable and he took advantage of it but how could she do this I was sitting here waiting for her like an idiot . just last week she was crazy telling me how much you love me and now this. a couple of my friends that know her are telling me that she is borderline or narcissist or something but I don't know much about this stuff

Edited July 26, 2015 by mano1982