madjac74 Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 I have to wonder what the heck she was thinking. She paid for a vacation for both of you. If you pissed her off then her best action would be to leave you at home and go! How on earth do you piss off a woman who just paid for your vacation though??? But technically you have every right to go. Someone mentioned small claims court but she pretty much gave you a gift and has no legal claim to get that money back. Just a bad choice by her. I think you should man up, kiss her butt and have a good vacation with her
Author NopeNah Posted August 1, 2015 Author Posted August 1, 2015 I have to wonder what the heck she was thinking. She paid for a vacation for both of you. If you pissed her off then her best action would be to leave you at home and go! How on earth do you piss off a woman who just paid for your vacation though??? But technically you have every right to go. Someone mentioned small claims court but she pretty much gave you a gift and has no legal claim to get that money back. Just a bad choice by her. I think you should man up, kiss her butt and have a good vacation with her I'm not worried about "small claims courts" or any action from her.. I don't want to reconcile,as she got drunk and flipped out...again..NOT going down that rabbit hole again. I offered her my share,she declined saying "You have paid as much if not more than me already, I'm sorry..blah..blah". I leave tomorrow and my buddy is going with me now. He bought an airline ticket, I worked it out with the hotel by upgrading to a two bedroom suite..I'll never hear or speak to her again..beach/booze by noon tomorrow! As to "what kind of man lets a female fund his trip"....It was a split deal. I paid more than her. I can fund anything I choose to. She offered to pay the hotel/flights in exchange for me paying everything else. If anyone is out cash,it's me.
blackcat777 Posted August 1, 2015 Posted August 1, 2015 I would feel gross doing this. If I just dumped/was dumped by a guy, the last thing I'd want to do is have any association with him, let alone revel in spending his money... or try to make right in my mind how I actually "spent more" in accepting a gift he bought me. Feels like bad juju to me. If a relationship is over, I'd want to go full NC to speed my healing. That would mean letting go of everything... plans and gifts.
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