ppo88201 Posted July 25, 2015 Posted July 25, 2015 Okay, so I met a guy that I had been talking to off facebook. We had a great connection and talked daily multiple times. He admits he has been dating another guy on and off for 3-4 years, but that its on the rocks and asks me to hang in there until after their vegas trip at the end of that month (it was like the first week in June he told me this). I didnt like the idea, but stupidly I agreed. They went to vegas, hooked up (which I knew would happen), but broke up after getting home. We continue to see each other. He comes over for the first time since we usually just met out of coffee or to sit outside somewhere. He was at softball all day and "playfully" hits my car, cant climax in bed, and then yells at me for not being confident, because confidence is a turn on. Keep in mind, I am sober and have been for years and he seems to be a binge drinker. We didnt talk for a bit, and he asks if I am pulling away and tells me how much I mean to him and how much he needs me in his life. This is like a month and half into it now and I have yet to go to his house, meet his friends, etc. So the other night I ask if he could commit to not being sexual with anyone else while we are hanging out because I dont like to worry about STDs and what not, and he says I am too needy and emotional, and that I am pissing him off. Well then I let him have it and told him he is a taker and selfish, etc. Well then he begs to be friends, and is all nice, but last night I was texting with him, being nice, and he just started saying how I am annoying and pissing him off, like I was talking to another person. I told him I was done and blocked him on FB and my phone. Did I do the right thing? The whole thing is so weird and I feel disorientated by it all, so I thought I would ask for some advice. Thanks. I wish he didnt get to me, but he did and now I am bummed.
xcupid Posted July 25, 2015 Posted July 25, 2015 You did the right thing. He's bad news. Move on. Good luck. 1
Gaeta Posted July 25, 2015 Posted July 25, 2015 He comes over for the first time since we usually just met out of coffee or to sit outside somewhere. He was at softball all day and "playfully" hits my car, cant climax in bed, and then yells at me for not being confident, because confidence is a turn on. Your story together should have ended right there. Why you accepted to see him again after he yelled at you is beyond me. Yes you did the right thing but not fast enough. Don't talk to him ever again and don't let him easy his way back into your life. 3
Author ppo88201 Posted July 25, 2015 Author Posted July 25, 2015 Your story together should have ended right there. Why you accepted to see him again after he yelled at you is beyond me. Yes you did the right thing but not fast enough. Don't talk to him ever again and don't let him easy his way back into your life. You're absolutely right. I was just lying to myself to try and see the good in him because I was excited about the prospect of a relationship, so I ended up putting myself last. I wont be doing that again. Thanks for responding. 1
CarrieT Posted July 25, 2015 Posted July 25, 2015 He is a manipulative drama queen who is trying to control you and the situation. Move on!
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