treehugger101 Posted July 25, 2015 Posted July 25, 2015 My parents pointed out how they are happy that I have found someone to date and be happy with. But they also mentioned to enjoy it but wait and see what happens, him and I have been dating and together for half a year, and they pointed out that if it gets to 1 year great. But I should pay attention to what he does, like maybe I won't like the way his feet smell, or the way he acts at home, or how he bathes, or other little perks and habits. And will I want to deal with that, for years and years, if we were to ever get married. Like you know, you date someone and learn how they really are type of thing they were trying to tell me. What would you do in a situation like this?
todreaminblue Posted July 25, 2015 Posted July 25, 2015 My parents pointed out how they are happy that I have found someone to date and be happy with. But they also mentioned to enjoy it but wait and see what happens, him and I have been dating and together for half a year, and they pointed out that if it gets to 1 year great. But I should pay attention to what he does, like maybe I won't like the way his feet smell, or the way he acts at home, or how he bathes, or other little perks and habits. And will I want to deal with that, for years and years, if we were to ever get married. Like you know, you date someone and learn how they really are type of thing they were trying to tell me. What would you do in a situation like this? i call it over analysing...there are foot powders for instance and how to get a guy to bathe more is tell him you will play slave girl and get in the bath with him once you marry of course...adn actually do that.......i would just enjoy a guy you like being with for now...and take one day at a time and not worry about smelly feet.....get to know the guy and try not to concentrate on the negatives handle them when they crop up...dont pre empt...have fun and enjoy the time you have together ....deb
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