darkbloom Posted July 27, 2015 Posted July 27, 2015 Man, it's crazy. Once I took action, it's like everything just happened. Once I had sex for the first time I was like oh my god, I'm actually doing it. I just don't know why I'm getting so many barbs in this thread. I'm just living life, having fun, enjoying the vibe. For once in my life. Since I was a little kid I was pretty depressed for various reasons. Now, it's just crazy the way my life has turned once I took action. That's why I get so burned when people, especially women think guys can just sleep around. Having sex with these girls and keeping them interested is really, really, really, REALLY ****ing hard. Sometimes I get tired...and I don't want to do it. But I keep pressing on. Keep pushing the buttons. Keep pushing the envelope. Why do I do it? I get such a ****ing rush out of it. It's just so thrilling to me that I can even do this. I love flirting with girls and feeling the chemistry. I love it when they get that look in their eye like they want to devour me. It's unexplainable, the feeling. Those of you guys who have gotten it know what I'm talking about. Ok, I will admit... I'm 6'1 and have a jacked fitness model body but still if I had a dead personality, it wouldn't mean anything. Yes, girls like the muscles but they like the banter so much more. I was jacked before I took action but it wouldn't mean anything. The real thing that took me out of this is knowing that there are girls out there who would LOVE to have sex with me. There's girls like that for everyone. Whoever you are, there's some girl(s) out there who would love to have sex with you. That is the game changer. You just need to find her. The reason it looks like I've had so much success because I'm willing to stick my neck out further than other guys. I've gotten shut down, blown out, I have a boyfriended, etc. But in refining my approach, I've seen that more are more girls are up for it. On Saturday when I went out, I approached 12 girls. Only one of them gave me her number. I'm going to leave this here. Numbers game. Quantity vs. Quality. 1
Author Camaro Guy Posted July 27, 2015 Author Posted July 27, 2015 I'm going to leave this here. Numbers game. Quantity vs. Quality. And the guy who never approaches a woman of interest never will get quality, unless she approaches him.
S_A Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 (edited) Camaro, grats on your newfound confidence. You've actually transformed; overnight it seems. Taking action is the key and, like you alluded to, getting rejected is an important part of being confident. I agree with a lot (if not all) of what you said in your original post (the primal stuff, and even the part about crappy food). I also have no problems with you making up for lost time by having lots of casual sex. You just need to make sure you honestly and tastefully set what your expectations are with these girls to prevent the hurt. One day, you may fall for a girl that just wants casual sex... Again, I am surprised by your transformation, but don't knock us dudes that are happy with our one GF. I'd take my one over twenty of yours Edit: And about the weight lifting, it also makes your erection even harder lol Edited July 28, 2015 by S_A 1
Rejected Rosebud Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 She's starting to be more trouble than she's worth. She's hot but she's not worth the time of day. Not worth the time of day but you're still "banging" her??
Rejected Rosebud Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 I also can't relate to Pacific Northwest types either. Too laid back for me. I had a friend from that area and ALL he did was smoke pot and talk about the environment. . Yes we love the environment! I guess to me talking about the environment seems more fulfilling than hanging around in skanky bars or wherever! I don't smoke pot though but yes, there's a lot of that around! Basically we are a very smart and creative group of young people and we have fun doing things like going to the coast, the hot springs, playing kickball, participating in the Moth and stuff like that. :D And yes many of us are having all kinds of sex, just not in the kind of environment you describe. Anyway carry on but you might experience a crash from this high you are on, I bet that soon it's going to feel like waking up from a hangover.
Author Camaro Guy Posted July 28, 2015 Author Posted July 28, 2015 Not worth the time of day but you're still "banging" her?? I never even had sex with her.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted July 28, 2015 Posted July 28, 2015 These women know I'm seeing others. I explicitly tell them that because we're not in a relationship. I tell them that they are free to stop seeing me if they do not agree with this. I do not go in-depth of what I am doing with other girls. One girl started to violate this and she started to get possessive before we even had sex. I stopped talking to her. As long as you don't act like a dick about it, they probably won't have a problem. It was not a problem for me because I didn't start watching porn until I was 17 and I didn't do it that often. Though I would have periods where I would binge, masturbating 3-4 times a day. To me, the rationale was simple. Why watch actresses have sex with guys they don't even like when I can go out and meet women who are enthusiastic to have sex with me, in a sense making my own porn? The choice was simple. As far as going out, when your buddies are going out and you want to get good with women, make it a point of duty to go out. Unless you have other stuff to do, of course. That's how you get your lumps. Last Saturday, my friends called me and said they were rolling to this awesome club with some other guys. At first I was like, "nah I'm gonna stay in". Then I was like "No. No you will not." I went. Didn't feel like going. I wanted to leave and go meet up with one girl I was dating. They said it was no reentry to the club. So I went in. Walked around the place for a bit in a daze. Then I saw this bomb girl. Immediately approached her. Talked to her. After a looooong night of talking we made out. And it was awesome. So it wasn't all bad. Moral of the story? Go out. I've actually been opened by several girls before. It's not an act of God, but it is uncommon. But this girl...damn. She was a beauty. I scolded my friend for letting her slip through the cracks. You could tell this girl was out to meet guys. Maybe even go home with a guy. So you have had girls initiate conversations with you first, break the ice? That's cool, you say you are 6'1, I would imagine that increases the odds of it happening
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 It really just shocks me how many guys think that once they get the car, the job, the clothes, or whatever, women will come flocking. They might, but it's certainly for all the wrong reasons. We already have everything we need to succeed with women inside of us. Our masculine core. Many men have fallen out of touch with this due to bull**** societal conditioning, bad food, or a miserable combination of the two. Namely, I'm talking about testosterone. It's the one thing that separates us from females. It allows us to take risks. Be brave. Gain muscle. Be aggressive. And lots of other things. I have a feeling a lot of guys here are suffering from low t. It makes you feel not like a man and it really just makes you feel like a dead corpse. Not fun. Having sex boosts testosterone. I feel so good when I'm just making a woman convulse in deep pleasure and she's just grabbing me for dear life. I didn't get laid for the past 4 days, when I have been having sex virtually every day for the past 3 weeks. One of the girls I'm having sex with is out of town, the other one is on her period, and the other one just lost her grandmother. I could have gone out and pulled a girl and had the sexy time with her but I said no. I'm gonna ride this and see what it can do for me. I started to get agitated and extremely aggressive on the second day. I felt more...masculine. But I knew how to channel it. If you have low testosterone, do these things: work out with heavy weights, sleep well, have a good, clean diet, and cut fat. Fat is an inhibitor of testosterone. The more fat you have, the less testosterone you will have. We men have two heads. We often let the "rational" head get in the way. Take your rational head out of the way and let the other one do the "thinking". If you feel that a girl makes you "tingly", by all means step to her. But you have to do it RIGHT. I also don't masturbate or look at porn at all, so I have no sexual release whatsoever. When you put yourself on those terms, you have no choice to get laid or else you will go insane. I also have a feeling many men on here like masturbating to porn. Cut it out. Cut it all out. You have no reason to masturbate to porn unless you are having sex. Even then, you still have no reason. Don't think that by acting out on your primal desires, you will offend girls. No. Women love raunchy, hot, dirty sex and they wanted it yesterday. They're just good at hiding it. If you think a girl is a "slut" for having sex, you will never make her feel free enough to unleash that side of her around you. I also truly feel that many men get or want to get a girlfriend out of desperation. They want out of the dating game. They just want a girl to accept them as they are even though they aren't really that fun to be around. Even though they don't get a girl's motor going. They just want a cool, hot girlfriend even though they have done nothing do deserve it. They can't take the pain and they want out. I laugh at guys like these because I used to be that guy. I know that if I want a cool, hot girlfriend, I'm going to have to approach and get rejected and get torn to pieces. Over and over and over again. Few of us get that lucky on the first try. If you're in your twenties, there is no reason why you shouldn't be having sex and meeting new women. If you aren't, you are wasting your time and I feel deeply sorry for you. Step up, nut up, and do it. Scared of meeting women? I was too. I still am! But I push through that fear because I know that the possibility of me getting laid is higher if I approach! You don't approach out of fear of rejection because you feel your little ego can't take it. Guess what? Mine can't either. But I still do it. Stop doing disservice to your ancestors guys. Approach women with masculine intent like you mean it. When you deprive yourself of any sexual stimulation, you'll be surprised what you can do. How many rejections should a guy take before he should realize he is doing something wrong in his approach
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