angeleyes08 Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 Hello everyone, I am really in need of help and opinions on this one. I had this gross gut feeling all day and this morning while my bf was showreing, I went through his phone and saw a text msg from a number, but the phone number was not saved. i scrolled up to the beginning and it looks like the convo was deleted and she recently texted him again. He said something like stay in connected and we will go for diner and drinks one day. Then she was telling him how she came back form her trip and he said things like oh well I hope your summer is a little better than mine. I need to confront him because its obviously someone he met and exchanged numbers with BUT he will snap at the fact that I know his phone code and that I went through his phone. But i need to do this and now sure how to go about it. I also took the phone number and thinking of calling the girl and asking her to speak to me in a nice way and ask her how she knows him before I confront him I know its wrong to go through peoples phones BUT he has given me reason to not trust him and has done similar before. I know its probably best to end it but not sure how to go about it. Please give me your opinions.
RoseVille Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 Plug the phone number into Google for a reverse search, as well as Facebook's search feature. And keep quiet about it for now, but keep looking when you can. What do you mean you had a "gross gut feeling all day"?
mrldii Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 I don't go through a man's phone looking for proof to justify my suspicions. I don't do these types of things, because I have enough faith in my instincts that if I feel he's cheating on me, it's probably because he is. I'm able to have enough faith my instincts because I don't stay with a man who's "given (me) reason to not trust and has done similar before". Take - and do with that - what you will. By the way, why are you even thinking of confronting the girl? Are you and she in an exclusive relationship, too? If not, then she owes you no loyalty nor explanation...nor has she done anything 'wrong'. Best of luck to you, OP... 1
RoseVille Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 Just read your other thread, entitled "My Man Wants to Be Alone." Just breakup with him. This guy isn't invested or interested in this relationship.
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