kangkongeater Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 Hi Guys, Its been 3 weeks since my girl broke up with me. For 3 weeks I've been assessing what was the problem with the relationships. Unfortunately (And i regret so much) it was fault that our relationship ended. For almost 3 years I made her cry and a handful of times physically hurt her.. But she hold on for me all those years hoping i could get change. Though i did change every time i got angry i break things and run away to avoid getting her hurt.. We talked about the break up and i made amendments but she is done with me, and her decision wont change. I'm trying my best to move on, its very hard.. What keep me from crying and getting depress every night is, how much i regret taking her for granted and how much i want to make my mistakes right for her. I want to show her that i changed for her, but i cant since i cant see her or be friend with her anymore. Regret and guilty is killing me, I kept on getting flash blacks on what i did to her..Though she forgive me, i cant forgive myself..
Chi townD Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 Well, I'm not going to sugar coat it. You've got no one to blame but yourself. No one should EVER put a hand on another person in anger. Man or woman. Period. You said you've changed. I don't think so. Have you been seeing a counselor? Have you been to anger management classes? You need to get a handle on your anger and how you cope with things. It's probably too late for this girl, but you'll need it before you enter anymore new relationships. 1
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