feelinglost2k15 Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 Hello, I'm a 30yr old man and have/had a 27yr old gf. Our relationship has been for 3 years and it's medium distance (an hour apart). Here is my story, please let me know your opinions and advice on how she is/will be feeling and is there any chance on us getting back on track? As I write this I'm still not 100% sure we have split, but I think we must have? Our relationship was strong and exciting, a good mix of stay at home and going out time. We saw each other Fri,Sat,Sun every weekend until recently when circumstances seemed to make it 3/4 weekends. My gf has kids and although we spent time together, generally they would be at their dads when we was together. However when that relationship broke down she found it difficult to justify finding sitters and hence we saw each other a bit less. We had plans to move in together but they changed due to my gf needing to do more qualifications and we would be living this way for another 4 years (I'm ok with this and thought she was to) 4 weeks ago we went on holiday for 3 days, it was fantastic, great fun and sex as normal. Then 3 weeks ago BOOM she sends a text saying she feels we can't continue due to her living 'two lives' With the distance etc. Everyone including me thought we was perfect for each other, such a shock I tried to call her but she said she couldn't hear my voice upset. I asked to meet and got the same response. The following two weeks I sent her a letter, a text a day saying how much I loved her and sent her flowers. I would get little or no response. Last week I text her asking what was going on and was she ending it without even talking on the phone? She replied saying she couldn't see how it could work but she loved me. I then started NC and on day 4 of it she text me asking something friendly and I responded (ignoring the situation) since then neither of us have contacted (been another 2 days since) Opinions please, I just feel lost
Morphine Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 NC. maybe she needs space. Maybe she needs to figure out her life. Maybe she is seeing someone else. NC is the only way you can find out. Writing to her, txting, msg...not tonna help, it will make it worse.
Author feelinglost2k15 Posted July 24, 2015 Author Posted July 24, 2015 How long do I leave it? Do I ever start a conversation again?
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