Oaktree101 Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 (edited) Dear all, I am getting overall positive but some mixed signals from this wonderful lady and wanted to reach out to you as you may be able to interpret this. I've been on a few dates with her now, details as follows. Sorry long story but I think you may want to interpret the details. Btw, she is a virgo girl, I am a capricorn boy, which I have read is a nice combo. 1. We met two years ago at a high school reunion. She's a few years younger. I was really attracted to her immediately as she is beautiful and super smart. She joked and smiled a lot and asked a lot of questions. She asked if I could take her sailing one day as she was really interested. We tried to arrange a meeting over the coming months but this never worked out timing-wise and then both of us stopped trying. 2. She contacted me a few months ago again and asked if I was still up for taking her sailing. We spent months trying to find a good weekend and did indeed go sailing a few weeks ago. We spent a full day together, we obviously really had fun. Lots of laughing at my (terrible ) jokes, deep conversation. She wanted to know everything about me, sailing, etc. We spent the afternoon at the beach, went swimming, had a picnic. Often we would lock eyes and this really had a strong noticeable effect on both of us, like "wow she's locking - haha she just noticed we are - wow we still are - wow she's smiling". I once accidently almost killed a seagull with a large piece of bread (that bird swallowed the whole thing haha) and she almost died laughing . When we were back in our home harbour, she wanted to hang out more so we sat there two hours by the bar. We discussed our lives and eventually I joked about my ex. She was really interested in my previous relationship. She then opened up about her dating life so far and I know everything now about her disappointments. When I finally had to leave, I told her: look, I happen to be in your town in two weeks for a triathlon, want to hang out? She responded: I was thinking about visiting my cousin elsewhere but may be there so yes will watch if I'm around! We hugged. 3. The fact that she was interested but didn't really confirm made me a little nervous. We texted a few times afterwards - I was always initiating, she was always responding with 1-2 days delay but lots of interest and emoticons. A few days before my triathlon she confirmed she'd be around. I suggested dinner the night before (I was staying in a hotel in the city for logistical reasons) and she immediately yes'ed. 4. Hug at the beginning. Dinner was awesome. We got really pretty drunk on two bottles of wine and had so much fun. She loved the food and the place that I had suggested. We finished at 1am, sitting outside in warm beautiful night. We hugged when we left. I told her: I have to be at the race site at 9am for set-up etc. She said: not sure if I can make it that early and I have to meet a friend at noon. Oh the terror! Was she actually joining that day at all? 5. 9am and I'm (pretty hung over) at the race site setting things up. I texted her: look, I am here now, start at 10, this is the course, I finish at 12. You joining? She texted immediately: yes sure. Just having breakfast. Will come see you. Just need to grab sth from a friend by 12. Wow, what a relief! 6. During the race, I saw her at the course twice, watching me. We met afterwards at the agreed spot. This was a beautiful moment. She congratulated me on my time, and said she had to go to her friend to pick something up, we could meet again in 30min. She asked how long I was staying in town - I said I could hop on a train in the afternoon or late evening. She said: I haven't got any plans. I said: great so want to hang out until late evening? She said: yeah great! And then there was a moment of silence, where we smiled at each other. I was happy she'd have time, and I think maybe she was thinking the same . 7. Nice day. We had lunch, looked at other people still competing, had drinks elsewhere, lay in the park. Still a lot of eye locking, mutual interviewing, lots of jokes, increasing amount of teasing on her behalf as she showed me the city. I wanted the day to never end. It did though, and I hopped on my train and went back. I texted her to thank her for the beautiful day and said I enjoyed it - she also said she did in response. 8. I texted a few days later: want to do sth again? She said yes sure! I asked if she wants to go the beach at her city next weekend, and she said: yeah, I may be travelling, but if I'm in town, for sure! So now again I am freaking out if she actually wants to go. I am always initiating everything. She sometimes appears reserved. But then, when we meet, we spend full days together, and when we eye lock, I feel warmer inside than ever before. Dear Virgos, what do you think? We are a really good match intellectually, love to travel off the beaten path, have a same (very serious) outlook on relationships and life, and so on. She just invited me to her birthday party in two months and looks like I'm the only new guy joining a circle of friends she had for ages. She appears interested, smiles and laughs a lot, compliments me a lot, shares all her fears and issues. But - I have noticed she is really kind to many people, even those that she has just met. We are only hugging so far when we meet and leave; she does however let me come closely when e.g. I show stuff on a map and doesn't turn away/freak out. What kills me is sometimes her non-binding nature ahead of our meetings, and her day-long (or 2-day-long) response times to my texts. A friend who's know her forever though says that's just how she rolls. Thanks in advance for your views! Edited July 24, 2015 by Oaktree101
casey.lives Posted July 24, 2015 Posted July 24, 2015 you can tell a virgo likes ou when they are super shy.. virgo's are fun friendly people.. shyness is the mark of attraction for virgo
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